i had an emergency operation a year ago that has left me with irriversable erectile dysfunction im 22 and before this i loved life i had a girlfriend a job everything a guy could want, now iv lost everything i have no will to live i feel lost i get angry and feel cheated out of my life, i cant seem to get over this and i cant seem to find anything to live for now that my sexuality has gone
i just feel like a dead man walking, how can i get through life without sex in it??
2007-02-10 05:40:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Assuming you have tried Rx remedies (Viagra, etc.), you should look into having an internal pump installed. There are a few different options.
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According to the article, long-term clinical data shows implants to be highly effective and reliable. Studies also find a very high degree of satisfaction by both users and their partners.
Don't lose hope.
2007-02-10 06:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by Bill C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first thing first. You need a Urologist. Even the most severe cases can usually be helped with the wide range of meds and implants available. Don't give up on this, don't let the doctor dismiss the issue, and don't be shy about it. Sex is an important part of the quality of life, and 22 is very young to not have it working. Bets of luck.
2007-02-10 06:06:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off your life isnt over it has just changed. If you still have feeling in you penis you can still feel manual/oral stimulation you can still do the same for your partner. There are several types of sexual aid you could try. A penis pump will cause an erection by pulling blood into the penis then a cock ring will help retain the erection until you are ready to lose it. If the woman you are with loves you and you love her and you are both to learn a new style of lovemaking you can
2007-02-10 07:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you unable to hold an erection at all? They do make products that can help you with that. I wish you didn 't feel life was over because of sex, I think you should contact your doc and get some anti-depressents as well as some good information on how to keep an erection. A urologist will be able to assist you, please don't give up on life,you've had a setback but there is hope out there. Good luck.
2007-02-10 05:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by fisherwoman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i really dont know how i would react if i were in your situation sex is very important in a persons life but all men will one day be in your shoes haveing the same problem to live with i can tell depresion is also in your life i really dont know what to say i just wish u the best what your going through will take a lot of time to deal with but its not imposible you are loved and still able to give love i wish u the best i know u can make it so dont give up if u want to talk send me an email at pops19559@yahoo,com
2007-02-10 23:14:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the help of psychologist, force a more positive thinking in your attitude and finally make sure that time is a very important factor in getting adapted to such situation, if you can think positively. God help you.
Remember that many other people are just as young as you but have lost much more for example young diabetics who had lost their errection and vision and may be something else.
2007-02-10 06:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by Ganswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ten years in the past, i began out loosing my part on intercourse. bodily, i began out loosing that skill. Went to the well-being care expert and experimented with particularly some issues and not something extremely suits me yet a testosterone shot can help. I easily have been divorced for twenty years. Now i think fortunate to discover a girl significant different to be pals with. I savour that because of the fact a sexual relationship is just one sided (hers). I nevertheless have the psychological needs by using my old memories of ways it became and want I knew that i could loose the actual section in some unspecified time sooner or later. i'm nevertheless attempting to return to grips with it. no longer purely like the media fancifully shows. luckily, the skill to love transcends the actual part and that i'm grateful for my companionships.
2016-10-01 22:20:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not all in this world and you can live without it.What about the million of people who have no sex and never will have sex.This is not the end of the world you still got life and should never give up.There are people in worst situation than you and have a satisfy life.There are other ways of satisfaction other than sex.All the best.
2007-02-10 05:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by BLESSED 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is more to life then sex, trust me! I have been celebate for good number of years and I dont need it. I have found hobbies and other things to do. Just becuase a guy your age in what society tells you doesnt mean that you need to follow that, make your own path and start a new trend. I think being absinate is a very admirable trait.
2007-02-10 05:46:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, let me say how sorry I am to hear about your problem. At age 22, with your whole life in front of you, it must be devestating to know you can never have sex. I assume you've consulted a specialist about your problem, but have you sought a second opinion? A penis pump might work. Good luck to you.
2007-02-10 08:14:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋