My boyfriend wants to have sex but I do not know what to say
2007-02-10 05:36:29 · 22 answers · asked by Kayla N 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
tell him your not ready, if he doesnt want to wait for u hes not worth it
2007-02-10 05:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if you're not ready then don't have sex. Maybe you don't want to have sex because you feel he's not the one to have sex with. Just tell him you don't want to have sex and you'll let him now if and when you do want to have it. I had sex when I wasn't ready and it caused a lot of problems for me. Oh and the relationship went bad anyway so I might as well have waited with sex till the next boyfriend came along who didn't push me into things I didn't want to do.
2007-02-10 13:44:24 · answer #2 · answered by chocolatebunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls would just go ahead and do it because they are afraid that they will loose the boyfriend. I am glad to see that YOU are smarter than that. No matter what your feelings for him are... NEVER do anything that you think you are not ready for. Tell your boyfriend how you feel...tell him that it has nothing to do at all with LOVE...just let him know that SEX is something that you are not ready for. Hopefully...he will understand and be PATIENT. But....IF FOR ANY REASON YOU DO DECIDE TO GO AHEAD AND HAVE SEX.....PLEASE USE PROTECTION!
2007-02-10 13:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by emotional blonde 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth, that you are not ready. If he cannot respect that then let him be on his merry way. If he really cares he will wait until you are ready.
2007-02-10 13:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are not ready. He will probally whine and complain and think of every reason why you should be ready. Stand firm! If he does not accept it break it off with him.
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2007-02-10 13:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by Karen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say you're not ready. Don't let yourself be forced into something until you are ready for it.
2007-02-10 13:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your crotch is not open for business and it will not be until the construction crew has finished making all the repairs. Then, remind him that babies come from that hole and he will pay for each and every one... that should creep him out enough. It is a serious thing, so you don't have to give in to the moment.
2007-02-10 13:42:21 · answer #7 · answered by tankgirl190 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that your not ready, if he really cares for you he will understand and wait until u are. if he is still persistent about it ask someone older to talk to him by the way how old are you
2007-02-10 13:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by alethea b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're not ready. U should not feel forced to do anything u dont want to. If he cant accept this then its his loss.
2007-02-10 13:39:19 · answer #9 · answered by Katie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM YOUR NOT READY TO HAVE SEX AND IF HE TRULY LIKES, LOVES, OR RESPECTS YOU HE WILL WAIT. JUST BE HONEST WITH HIM AND DONT DO ANYTHING YOU DONT WANT TO DO. GOOD LUCK AND HOPEFULLY THING GO OK.
2007-02-10 13:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋