He broke up with me and, i still love him of course, i was like begging him to come back, even though he did all the wrongs. So one time online he said that, sometime down the road, he knows that i'll make him pay for what he did to me. What does he really mean by that? yea i kno its all straight forward but im so confused i dont even kno what he means.
2007-02-10 05:34:48 · 9 answers · asked by babygirl23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he mis-treated you and then dumped you and you are still obsessing over him then you need a serious SELF ESTEEM CHECK. Move on kiddo. Move on and find someone who cares about you because he does not! Do not even continue to seek an answer to your question!!!
2007-02-10 05:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always confusing when guys break up with girls. They never tell them the truth why they are breaking up. They lie and make something up usually. Sometimes just so they don't hurt your feelings. Most of the time they break up because they want someone else. Sad but true. While us girls pine for them after a break up they are out partying and sleeping with anything they see.
Maybe he said he knows you will make him pay because he feels a bit guilty and thinks he deserves to pay for what he did to you. Maybe a little punishment would ease his concience.
Whatever the reasons, you just need to stop over thinking it and accept that it is done.
Do something to distract yourself while you get over him and before long it will be all ok again.
2007-02-10 05:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by Esperenza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, he likes someone else. Dont ever beg him to come back. Thats pathetic and he will see that he can walk all over you. Act like your fine and happy. never let him see you break a sweat, as the saying goes. find some other guys to flirt with, think of all the bad things and did, and get over him. seems like a jerk anyways. and any girls deserves better than that.
2007-02-10 05:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by Hayden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, DON'T BE BEGGING ANYBODY TO COME BACK TO YOU. That is the biggest mistake you could make in your life. DON'T YOU EVER DO THAT AGAIN. I understand you love him, but honey they are many fish in the sea, and many animals on earth, lol. And about what he said well, that means he is very guilty of whatever he did, and that he knows you'll like get back at him. And I know it hurts at first, but believe me, you will get over it in less that 3 months believe me.
2007-02-10 05:42:55 · answer #4 · answered by ~*Marie~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're ex is feeling quilty because he did you wrong, that what goes around comes around, We all reap what we sow, good or bad. So he'll have a relationship where he'll do the suffering and what he did to you, someone else will do it to him.
PeAcE!
2007-02-10 05:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by Dalanis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just giving you an excuse to move on. He probably cheated on you and he thinks you're going to try and get him back for it.
2007-02-10 05:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by diamoniquejazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could possibly have cheated on you...that's what it sounds like anyways, and he broke up with you so that you didn't do it first
2007-02-10 05:38:06 · answer #7 · answered by chocolatechip333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for starters what did he do? if he cheated then girl you can do so much better for youself, dont go there...move on !
2007-02-10 05:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by vicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sleep with his best friend like most other chicks do!
2007-02-10 05:37:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋