iIm graduating high school in a few months and you know Im sort of looking back and I realize that I dont fit into any particilar type. I dont have any close friends but I have many acquaintances because I was nice to everyone but I was never really wanted to be close friends, until now so I really regret it. But everyone seemed to be inviting, and everyone said they trusted me, so i didnt get caught up in groups because I didnt want to lose that trust by seeming like I was "in" with anybody. Its a small school and in my class Iim basically the onlyy loner, everyone else is in a roup more or less but no one can ever figure out who I like better. ANd because of that I never really get invited to parties or anything, every now and then you know, and they seem to like haviing me there but never really think of me that much because Im boring. Im actually pretty ok with this but I was wondering was anyone else like this.?...
2007-02-10 05:34:15 · 14 answers · asked by leena 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
I like everybody, theres no one I Iwouldnt want to be friends with but i havent got to know many people
2007-02-10 05:36:40 · update #1
they actually said "everybody trusts me" many times
2007-02-10 05:37:15 · update #2
Yes.
2007-02-10 05:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
I'm sorry, I don't really know how you feel 'cause I experience it from the other side.
I was part of a group but I know a couple of people who floated here and there. There are some who seemed cool because he/she got along with EVERYBODY without being tied down to anybody. And there are some who seemed just 'that'.
I guess its a matter of attitude and how you present yourself. But I honestly feel for you. Going through high school like that must have been tough.
Since you're graduating in a few months, I suggest you make efforts to get to know everyone better. You don't necessarily need to join a group. Just be closer to everybody. And after that, its college. It'll be a whole new experience, trust me. Just have fun and just keep looking forward, okay?
Good luck.
2007-02-10 05:39:42 · answer #2 · answered by Diamond 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was totally like that. I went to school to try to learn at least and i didnt really care about what was going on in everyone elses lives. I was not apart of the cool crowd, the popular crown the drama team kids, i didnt do any extra activities or anything. I wasn't like a complete dork because now i will see people from high school that were like "popular" and one guy for example was like you were so hot, we should go out on a date sometimes. I have made more close friends outside of school. I have had more fun outside of school and not hanging out with people from school. Once you get out into the working world you will meet new interesting people.
2007-02-10 05:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by Ridin' Dirty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was like that too, and I regret not making that many friends, but you also have to remember, if u are attending college, you can somewhat start a new leaf. Get out there and mingle! Also, college forces you to make lifetime friends by setting you up in dorms with roommates. Wish you the best of luck, and dont try so hard, eventually youll meet someone you "cant live without"
2007-02-10 05:39:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its okay not to fit in. There is nothing wrong with it. I'm sure you are a great person who is sensitive to others but, is more mature than the people you are surrounded by. Look to the future after graduation when things can change and make the best of your present situation. I bet 5 years from now your classmates will have fond memories of you. Good luck take care.
2007-02-10 15:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by timmy h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you leave school, none of this will matter; many who were close friends never see each other any more. Just be who you are and you will figure out what suits you as you go along. A lot of people are like you.
2007-02-10 05:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am quite like you, but I do have 2 best friends. Who I've known since kindergarten.
Its good to be friendly with everyone, but you should try and make some friends with your favorite people before Highschool ends, and also make sure you stay in contact with everyone, if you dont you will regret it later!
2007-02-10 05:37:46 · answer #7 · answered by Fiona M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the real trials of humanity is that everyone is really alone. No matter how much you have support, of family friends, etc, you are still alone in a very real sense. Unity with the Savior YAHOSHUA heals some of the separateness, but not all, for we long for Heaven where we will all be one in a very real sense.
2007-02-10 05:41:26 · answer #8 · answered by hasse_john 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a very nice person, please stay that way. I know people like you have described yourself, and they are very pleasant individuals. Go to College! I cannot stress this enough, and maybe you will find that college life is very different from high school. Sounds like you are very mature, and are capable of being an adult when high school is over. Be proud that you are different.
2007-02-10 05:39:29 · answer #9 · answered by noggle4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Senior intense college is the best same element as intense college, purely a various call. Like in my city we've Austin Senior intense (intense college) and Austin junior intense (center college).
2016-11-03 02:08:28 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I was in that situation so i no wut you goin through. What i wood suggest is going up 2 people and trying to fit in. Like wearing the clothes that are " in". If you want to be a geek tuck yo' shirt in, if you want to be popular pop yo' colla' sweety.Dont be afraid to dress 2 impress 'cause everyone changes themselves fo' everyone.
2007-02-10 05:42:23 · answer #11 · answered by pritty princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋