my friend is 13 and his girlfriend is 13, they had sexual intercourse, shes pregnant, what should they do?

Question

shes pregnant with twins and their family doesnt know anything. hes dedicated to her and loves her alot so hes staying with her.

she doesnt wanna have an abortion and shes 2weeks pregnant

Answer 1

are you 13? sounds like it she can't be 2 weeks and knows she is having twins. if they are that naive and dumb they shouldn't be having sex and you are just as stupid for positng this stupid question

Answer 2

First of all they're 13. OMB! What were they thinking of. Being a parent is hard enough please believe I have 3. Its harder when you're 13. You can't even get a job, drivers license, a R rated movie at 13. I think they definitely need to weigh their options. Not saying abortion because that's wrong but maybe adoption or having their parents help out a great deal. Whatever they decide they need to think about whats best for those babies. Tell your friend that this is a lesson learned get on birth control if she still chooses to have sex. Unprotected sex is like putting a gun to your head and pulling the trigger. Be smart and wiser in the decisions that you all make. Best of luck.

Answer 3

This is not going to be easy to tell you, but it will be very hard for them in the future. I mean, if they DON'T tell the parents, she'll start growing a bump, and they'll be suspicious. Also, if they DON'T tell the parents where WILL they put the baby, have the baby, etc??????????? If you DO tell the parents, I guess it will be better, but they MIGHT want her not to have the babys by like abortion?? Or they might like put her in a mental center... That's bad.. If you think they truly care about her, and if anything she did did not matter to them, I think it's best to tell them, and her be like home-schooled, etc. Keep it a secret. You wouldn't want her life to be a pain in the ***. The boyfriend will probably be dedicated to her this whole time, however it's going to be hard when they have to take care of the baby and all......
But first, you should visit a doctor to check what to do, etc....
Good luck!

Answer 4

If she's 2 weeks pregnant, she can't possibly know that she's having twins. It's hard enough to determine pregnancy at 2 weeks. Has she been to a doctor to confirm the pregnancy? If so, she should wait 12 weeks until the risk for a miscarriage has passed and then tell her parents.

Answer 5

First of all since neither of them are legal adults, and more than likely not able to support themselves financially the parents are going to need to be involved. You say she's pregnant with twins? So she is going to the doctor, that's good but it takes a lot more than free health care for the baby to raise a child. They need to consider what kind of job either of them can get without a highschool education, flipping burgers even full time cannot support a family of 4. The parents need to be told and a living situation needs to be decided. It's nice to hear he is dedicated to her, but if either of them were smart enough to raise children they would of used protection and waited until they could support themselves. Either way there is no easy solution.

Answer 6

Your best bet is to stay out of their business.

If she is pregnant with twins, she would have had an ultrasound examination to determine that - and the liklihood of her being able to pull that off at 13 with no family involvement is pretty slim.

That said, let's move on to some slightly more believeable questions, okay?

Answer 7

Wow. 13? That sucks.

Well, ok then. They HAVE to tell the parents. Period. If she's afraid of their reaction, then go to someone you trust-- a teacher, school guidance counselor, etc and have them arrange a meeting that they will mediate to control the situation and help them go over all their options. But don't *you* go telling their parents, because its their problem. Just pass on any information and advice you get, and then leave it alone.

Answer 8

either your lieing or your friend is lieing because they can't tell if it's twins at only 2 weeks pregnant come on now I can't believe all of you are actually answering this like a 13 year old is really 2 weeks pregnant with twins

Answer 9

haha this is soo made up....really u cant possibly know your having twins at 2 weeks pregnant usually a 13 year old wouldnt know shes even pregnant at 2 weeks....ummm try another story

Answer 10

Are you serious? They're screwed for sure. There's two choices: give the babies up for adoption (strongly, strongly recommended) or raise them. The parents are going to have to know evenutally, and if both of them are only 13, they're going to need all the help they can get. I'd be surprised if the girls dad doesn't cut off the boys dick. I'd do it myself.

Answer 11

13 is very young and it sounds like they have a long road ahead. Stick by your friends .. they will need your friendship. The old saying that "youth is wasted on the young" applies here signifcantly. All the best.