i have heard about quite alot of "straight" guys sleeping with gay and/or straight gus? does anybody have statistics to prove this? you can also tell me if you have had such an experience(if you are gay or straight)! maybe men are just too sexually "programmed" and want to get their "rocks of" when they are horny irrespective of the sex. this question is open to gay and straight guys alike. hoping for some very interesting responces. please keep it "real"..!!!
2007-02-10 05:28:04 · 11 answers · asked by wanderingstar 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
yes, they do have fantasies about being in the company of gay men and sleeping with them. I've read real life stories about this several times. Maybe it's true that there isn't such a thing as gay or straight -- it's just a label concocted up by someone. I think male bonding is very healthy and it isn't wrong for a straight guy to sleep with a gay one, if just to feel close with another man.
2007-02-10 06:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by xander 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gay men have become liberated enough to realize that the labels can never sum up a person or their value, and and that being this way is ok and natural. "Straight" men who sleeps with guys are afraid of the (supposed) stigma or negatives associated with being gay. At worst they feel to accept themselves as "gay" means they are no longer men. Isn't true at all, but ignorance and fear often rules these guys' lives.
2016-05-25 02:26:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a straight guy. I've never once wanted to sleep with another man. I do not look down on gay people, but that's the difference. If "straight" guy are sleeping with gay guys I can conclude they too are gay. You can not be straight and sleep with the same sex even just to "get your rocks off."
2007-02-10 05:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by apple juice 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Are you trying to decide what label should be attached to yourself because of such dreams? Forget about labels. If you want to try it, try it. If you don't like it, label yourself as ungay. If you do like it, label yourself as happy.
2007-02-10 06:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by Grist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have seen and heard about this, but mostly among black men who have spent time in prison. A perfectly 'straight' man once asked me to 'toss his salad'. If you asked if he was bi or curious, he would *****-slap you, so there's something fishy(?) going on.
2007-02-10 05:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is normal to feel affection for members of the same sex. It is perversion to express that affection sexually!
2007-02-10 05:30:35 · answer #6 · answered by hasse_john 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Don't know about the fantasy part. Usually has to do wit hwo much money is fronted.
2007-02-10 05:31:01 · answer #7 · answered by ROBERTSJOHNSON 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This staight guy does not. But to those that do - to each his own.
2007-02-10 05:34:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
my husband says no thats sick and you wouldn't really be straight probably bi
2007-02-10 05:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by xoxo-gina! 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
interesting......
2007-02-10 09:00:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋