gay! he just told me today.I loved him he was cute but now i have to dump him he likes guys like MY EX WHAT DO I DO?
2007-02-10 04:25:19 · 15 answers · asked by Daddys Doobe 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just move on & find someone else.
2007-02-10 04:27:55 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry you are going through this - that's really a difficult thing to learn. But it's not the end of the world - just a less than pleasant part of the journey.
First, If you had sex with him, ask him if he has been with guys (or gals) sexually prior to or while he was dating you. Protected sex or not, go to the doctor and get tested as they may recommend.
Second, while you're at the doctor, ask for the name of a good counselor who will listen non-judgmentally and offer you tools to use to help move you past the hurt and anger you are undoubtedly feeling right now.
Third, take a deep breath and be glad you were not married to him with children in the picture - it could be worse.
Feel better and good luck in the future.
2007-02-10 12:32:14 · answer #2 · answered by PamV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry about this. this must have been really shocking for you. the only thing for you to do is to move on. you can still be friends with him if you want to but since he is gay, there is nothing more that you can be. the only thing that would make things worse at this point would be if he got together with your ex. that would be something wouldn't it? just move on and find someone who will love and respect you for who you are. that is what you deserve. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-10 12:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I know that is devasting! However, be thankful that he was honest with you and you did not catch him in the act. Keep your head up and move on. At least you know that if you can't have him no other woman will.
Peace & Love
2007-02-10 12:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by princess4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahahahhahahahahaha...sorry.
Now that's out of my system, try to understand that this is his choice, and at least he told you instead of you walking in on him and his best friend making out. Tell him you support his choice, but you need some time. Then, make friends again. Gay guys are a girls best friend, screw diamonds!! They shop and check out guys with you...and they arent nearly as catty as other females. So take some time, then have some fun. Good luck, hon.
2007-02-10 12:30:03 · answer #5 · answered by kissamoose217 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
It seems pretty clear.
If you like him you can remain friends. But, that's about it.
He likes men and he was brave enough to tell you about it. Accept what you have heard and move on.
2007-02-10 12:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by spamovision 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for a start do not blame yourself for it. If mine told me he was gay id be happier that he wasnt getting with other girls. at least its not because he doesnt like you. id support him 100%
2007-02-10 12:30:48 · answer #7 · answered by largeinit343 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself a new man who hopefully isn't gay or bisexual. Have you asked yourself why it is that you're attacting men like this?
2007-02-10 12:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you have sex change and become a man , there is nothing you can do. so move on and find some stright dumb hunk to be with. believe me, there are plenty.
2007-02-10 12:33:32 · answer #9 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo tell him to stop being gay and sell his purse! and all the lipstick inside! =)
2007-02-10 12:56:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋