I have a friend that told me and my other friend that she was fingered from a guy. Well she doesn't want the guy that she's talkin to, to find out. What should me and my other friend do. Tell the guy, who is a really good friend of my other friend, or not say anything about it. If he finds out what she did, and that we knew and never said anything to him about the whole situation, he may be mad at me and my friend for not telling him. And then we lose his friendship. But if we do tell him then it may hurt the girl who told us. What should we do.
2007-02-10 04:25:16 · 6 answers · asked by does it matter wat this says 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There's nothing you can do....it's going to be his word if he chooses to tell people....and her word.
That's why it's important to make good choices before you do things because it'll come back to bite you in the butt everytime.
2007-02-10 04:29:14 · answer #1 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK WELL THINK ABOUT IT. IF YOU DONT TELL HIM AND HE FINDS OUT THEN HE WILL BE VERY HURT AND MAD THAT YOU DIDNT TELL HIM BUT IF YOU DO TELL HIM YOU MIGHT LOOSE HER WELL PICTURE IT THIS WAY IF YOUR BF DID SOMETHING AND TOLD YOUR FRIENDS AND THEY DIDNT TELL YOU AND YOU FOUND OUT ON YOUR OWN WOULDNT YOU BE MAD WELL ITS THE SAME WITH HIM. JUST TELL HIM OK ITS FINE IF YOUR FRIEND REALLY CARES ABOUT YOU SHE WOULD UNDERSTAND IT WAS THE BEST FOR BOTH OF YOU OR CONVINSE HER TO TELL HIM WE ALL KNO THATS THE RIGHT THING TO DO AND HE WOULD LIKE TO HEAR IT MORE FROM HER
2007-02-10 12:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by blondie 4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him.wat state r u n?we might b in the same one cuz there is this classmate who is fingerin another girl in the school at the skate rink and i hear this from my friend.and i don't go there cuz i moved here like in 2005's summer.
2007-02-10 12:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by ღ♥MadamA.A.♥ღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell him. if he will find out that u knew, just tell him that it was better to find himself.
2007-02-10 12:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by iustina g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah what, use names, even if there not real, this question is confusing
2007-02-10 13:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so ****** up huh gurl
2007-02-10 12:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋