I'm in high school. How can I ignore the fact that guys in my class that hate me are heckling me? They even do it during practice! I really need to find a way to shut them out.
2007-02-10 04:24:28 · 10 answers · asked by 77684 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
why isn't your coach helping you during practice?
I'm a coach and I wouldn't tolerate it.
They would behave or be somewhere else.
games are harder but with the extra noise of a game it should be easier to focus on your immediate goals ( say a basket)
it's called getting your head in the game
I hope the heckling is making you mad ,not sad. If it just hurts your feelings ,change your attitude, and get mad. Use your anger to help you focus on the game and think how you will not allow the hecklers to beat you emotionally not now not ever. Be a wall and let their words bounce off you but not affect you.
2007-02-10 04:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by FOA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to learn to train yourself to see what they are doing differently than a problem for you. See it as a problem for them, c'mon they must be so bored if they have nothing better to do then heckle you. Are you sure they don't like you? In my experience guys who do that are too dumb to approach the girl, so they make fun of her. Try to see it as Poor them not poor you. Rise above it, you're better than they are. If you say something retaliating, they will know it bothers you and keep on. Eventually if ignored they will get bored of it and move on.
2007-02-10 12:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Bullies are very mean, and people like you suffer because of them, and most of the times, you remember that bullying for the rest of your life. I really cannot give you any advice on how to tune them out other than just be who you are. because sure as hell, if you snitch on them, then the bullying becomes worse.
Dear, I know what you are going through, because I was once one of your bullies. And you know what...I have since apologized to each and every person too. As I grew up and became a man, I had shame for what I done. I am so sorry for people like that, and what I used to be.
2007-02-10 12:32:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
show them that you don't care be stronge heckled them back show whos boss
2007-02-10 12:28:41 · answer #4 · answered by pink_mel_101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate as hard as you can.
Or what I would do as using there negative attitude twoards you as motivation.
I play better when I'm pissed off
;)
hope this helps =]
2007-02-10 12:29:20 · answer #5 · answered by physcochik2477 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be like the water boy and knock the #&^$ out of them!
2007-02-10 12:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just know that they are all insecure brainless sheep...keep this in your mind when you hear their taunts...you should feel sorry for those morons...dont let them know it bothers you or it will get worse....give them a wink and blow them a kiss and wave every chance you get
2007-02-10 12:30:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Words only have power over you if YOU let them.
2007-02-10 12:28:01 · answer #8 · answered by Jeffrey 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, theres many ways. you can talk back to them. you can knock the hell out of them. you can get someone to hackle on them.
2007-02-10 12:29:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave the venue
2007-02-10 12:26:52 · answer #10 · answered by thesunshineking 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋