well i liked this guy and for a minute he likes me. we talked on the phone we hung out in school. and then i made a new friend and things between me and him kinda like went down the drain. i mean now they talk on the phone now and then. now they hug each other in the hall. now they look at each other from across the room and smile at each other. maybe it is not just him. maybe she is leading him on? and the big thing she has a boyfriend!!!!!!!!!!! when they talk on the phone they don't talk as friends they get to know each other and everything. they have a class together and they flirt and everything. she doesn't want nobody to know she has a boyfriend. she only tries to be with her boyfriend on the down low. i mean it makes me wonder what did i do to makw him get over me? he doesn't talk to me when he does it is just a "hi" and that is all. i mean i was nice and im a very attractive young lady. But the quesion is where did i go wrong?.........................................
2007-02-10 04:11:57 · 6 answers · asked by Nicole 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You didn't go wrong. Young people today have the attention spans of gnats. So that is going to happen. It sounds like you may have "overstated" to yourself the relationship you had. That is normal. Also you should NOT being going over the details of your friend does this he does that, she has a boyfriend and you don't approve of her behavior. Its not that it is none of your business, but rather you are doing it because you like the guy that is paying attention to her. Many women are very very jealous of other women, and that is behavior you need to avoid and work to get beyond. Find someone else you think is nice, funny, creative, honest, etc and ask them to get a pizza or go to a movie. The best way to move on is to move on.
Take care.
2007-02-10 04:24:43 · answer #1 · answered by Gatsby216 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to be more attracted to your new friend then you and with you too it was the start of getting to know each other. (guy) Your new friend is sneaky watch out she seems very shady to me did she know you liked the guy? and if so she isnt a friend at all she already has a boyfriend she is up to no good.The guy that you like isnt worth you being hurt b/c he knew you liked him. If I were you I would dump the both of them. Good Luck
2007-02-10 12:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people just click. Warn your friend that if she keeps flirting with this guy, and he finds out she is in a relationship, any potential between him and her will be gone. She probably won't listen. So wait, and when it's time, grab the rebound.
2007-02-10 12:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he wants to make you gealous.Several people find it as a fun.That doesen't mean he doesen't like you, only he may have a little strange way to express his feelings. You should pretend indifferent a while.If he really likes you he will turn back on you in a moment.
Good luck!
2007-02-10 12:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by dr.boom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knows that he is upsetting you, when you give them that kind of control they take it and run with it, he probably is not over you.
Here is the key thing you get over him and see how fast his head turns and wonders why you are not worried about why he ain't
when one bus leaves another one will be their in 15 minutes girlie hold on, you might be real thankful later that you got over him, u do not know what your missing out their mingle and see who makes you tingle. and she apparently was not your best freind if she got yo man. play back ma
2007-02-10 12:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by chocolate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say to move on. when i was young this was very common with my so called friends too. dont put too much thought into it. take time to study yourself and know yourself well. know your likes and dis-likes. have some time away from the guys and be able to have a good time on your own. dont be co-dependent. good luck.
2007-02-10 12:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by rhonda w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋