For example my "friend" always got mad at me if i left her, to go with my boyfriend or do something! she would not let me live my life!! in the last couple of years i have always been there for her and now that I'm there but with someone else too she gets mad,jealous, and selfish!!! i spend time equally with both of them and my other friends!and she says i don't!Then she told my BF one of my biggest secrets about myself!(its a girl thing so i could not tell him!) i hate being a teenager!!! Now i hate her and she hates me!! What do i do?
2007-02-10 04:11:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just let it go, honey. It doesn't sound like she's worth all the trouble & drama. She's too controlling & demanding of your attention. Your teen years are too short to spend them with a friend like that.
I know it hurts when you "break up", so to speak, with a best friend, but sometimes you just have to let them go.
2007-02-10 04:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. they heard "something" about me, and thought it was true so they stopped talking to me,and started talking about me to other people. It was a blessing in disguise and they've reached out to try to talk me since things changed. They stare at me when I catch them in the grocery store or any other public place like they can't believe i'm still alive. I just LOL cause they wanna talk to me, and I don't give a f*** to make amends. Now as far as enemies becoming friends.. hm. Yes actually a girl in my freshmen year made fun of my last name, and the way I would talk( some can detect an accent) anyway the next year we became friends and we're in and out of touch but we're cool. Anytime I see her i'm glad. :)
2016-05-25 02:00:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one of 2 things, you could have been spending too much time with your boyfriend (putting her on the back burner) and not realizing it, or she is a jealous psycho. You just really need to talk to her and see what her perspective is, also ask other friends, see what they think.
2007-02-16 17:08:54 · answer #3 · answered by I Like Grapes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were u, i will not keep her as a bestfriend. I would rather tell her to buzz off for being a super backstabber. Your world does not evolve around her anyways. If she is a true friend, she wouldnt have divulged your secret to your boyfriend. If its the other way around, do u think she would dump her boyfriend for u? i think not.
2007-02-17 23:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by Say what? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her! She was never really your friend, or she would understand the time you spent with your boyfriend! A best friend would never have told your secret to anyone! In future, you might want to be careful about choosing your friends.
2007-02-10 04:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me she sounds like my cousin, its like you have to spend every single moment of your time with a so-called "best friend" but that is what kills a friendship. You need to spend time with the guy who is your current BF. So what if your going out with a guy and you like to spend time with, she doesnt need to get jealous. She needs to get out there and find herself a BF and see what its like to have one. there is a quote i like to live by but i dont think you should..well not yet anyways...and just tell her to back off and live her own life on her own two feet!
2007-02-17 00:23:30 · answer #6 · answered by angelpepsi22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should slow talk with her.its realy not good for you and her if she put u on that situation.if she still acting like that,you should ignore her.dont let others bother your life or killing you softly.and dont tell your freind bout your big secret because they can use that on us.it totaly s**k when our best freind be our enemy because we dont know what they will do next.at this moment,take your time to clear your mind bout her.take breath and let life move on.
2007-02-18 02:41:05 · answer #7 · answered by mia ivy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that wasn't very nice of her and that she should not be mad,jealous,or selfish and also tell just because she doesn't have a life doesn't mean she could take urs
2007-02-17 09:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by pretty_sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok..what u should do is just forget about her..she isnt really ur freind if u end up hating each other and stuff..the same thing happened with me and it's still going on. also,tell some one or even her what is making u soo upset and tell her that she isnt worth ur time...well, good luck!
2007-02-10 04:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by cute_shorty_878 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK FIRST OFF THAT GIRL SEEMS VERY SELFISH AND YOU SHOULD BE HAPPY THAT YOU ARNT FRIEDNS ANY MORE YOU CAN NOW LIVE YOUR LIFE AND EVEN IF SHE DID TELL THAT TO YOUR BF IT WAS VERY MEAN BUT IF YOU REALLY LOVED HIM YOU WOULDNT CARE IF HE KNEW AND IF HE LOVED YOU HE WOULD WANT TO KNO SO JUST BE HAPPY AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE DONT LET THIS STRESS YOU OUT OK!!
2007-02-10 04:23:44 · answer #10 · answered by blondie 4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋