I recently went on a ski trip with my girlfriend. While we were there I saw some alarming text messages of hers that has me thinking she is cheating. 1st, there was about 50 from the same guy no dates so I don't know how far back this goes. 2nd, some of the messages had a sexual connotation. Her replies to them were few but favoring. While we were up there she sent a message to the other chap that said "cold up here, come keep me warm" When I confronted her she said she understood why I would get upset but its not what it looks like. She claims the messages make her laugh cause she knows who their coming from. We had a calm talk about the whole thing I stayed cool and we went snowboarding the next day. Anyway, my instincts tell me she could be lying so I didn't call for over a week. She called me a couple times and I got back to her later same day. I went to see her and she was mad I didn't call. She acted like we are still 2gether. But now we have stopped talking WHAT IS GOING ON???
2007-02-10 04:10:37 · 3 answers · asked by Teddy F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like the possilbility your still in love and this is just incoestandental seeing that theres so many computers out there and just likes to have mates on-line?
2007-02-10 04:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and set up a date to talk and when you do ask her if the shoe was on the other foot what would she think? and if it is that innocent then for your own knowing you want to know who she was texting and why that person? if you feel shes not honest or wont do that, she lying and walk away, once a cheat always a cheat....
2007-02-10 18:00:19 · answer #2 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love her? If so try to work things out...If not, walk away...no better yet...RUN !!!
2007-02-10 12:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by Vicki B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋