they have been divorced for 6 yrs but still my bf of 5yrs allows his exwife to controll him.now he LEFT her for an old gf(not me) maybe its guilt?he said no she (his ex)drove him to cheat because she was so controlling.she would take him back in a heart beat so he does not regret his decision.when i asked him why he says hes doing it for his childs sake which maybe so as he does love his child dearly but i feel theres more to it than that.can anyone tell me why my bf would be so nice,accommodating,helpful to her when she was so nasty to him when they were married and now treats me like a doormat?and no hes not doing her on the side i know this for sure.
2007-02-10 04:02:47 · 5 answers · asked by jmark0908 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
have a similar problem myself--I have no idea why but I DO know that I am right on the damn verge of giving him alot of extra time to kiss her ***-- because I am over it--and you will be to before long I would say
2007-02-10 04:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by calebjohnsmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First he ought to not be treating you want a doormat. hi with that? Get that straightened out. 2d he should be efficient to his X, via youngster. young children welfare ought to continuously come first in divorce situations. in case you've faith him, then do not situation about it. He does not choose her. in basic terms remember nonetheless he cheated on her, ( and his excuse for doing so became lame) no man or woman causes you to cheat. It became his determination. Do you sense shield sufficient with this guy to carry close he received't do an same to you? If given the chance? i'd be extra tense about that. Expecially if you're saying he's treating you want a doormat. it quite is a tremendous pink flag. He may have wandering eyes back and not in any respect in the route of his X.
2016-11-26 21:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Puhleese, you don't know she was a b-tch when they were married. All you have is what he tells you, and he's gonna make himself look good. She's his baby's mama. If she still loves him and he left her, of course she ain't gonna like YOU, even if you aren't why he left. Put yourself in her shoes, you're gonna be there soon enough anyway. He's keeping his options open. You'll be a nasty b-tch when he leaves you, too.
2007-02-10 04:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by DisIllusioned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ex-wife's are like an old pair of sneaker,they stink,they leak in a rain
but they are a comfortable wear
2007-02-10 04:12:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes still in love with her!
2007-02-10 04:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by swt-bby-gl-69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋