i'm not ready for it,but he told me that i'm big enough..and he said he love me a lots..i'm so scared,plezzz help me..
2007-02-10 04:00:17 · 15 answers · asked by anna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
never do anything when you arent ready to, if he really loved you then he would respect you and your decision to wait, if he cant do that then dump him and find someone who will have some respect for you....
2007-02-11 03:48:16 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't EVER do anything you are scared of or not ready for. In most cases a guy will talk you into it and then once you give in and it gets old they move on. That's a challenge for most guys but they won't admit it. In case you are curious I am a guy.
2007-02-13 16:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by andyt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not ready for it, is what you said, don't matter if he thinks your "big" enough. Test how much he loves you by saying no, and he'll stick around if it is true. Tell, you really care about him, but you want to be ready and do it when you feel its right. Please do not to rush into anything.
2007-02-10 04:06:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't confuse love with lust, Your heart will tell you when you are ready to make that commitment, by the way if your still young it's cool to stay a virgin until your wedding night!
2007-02-10 04:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by stonehenge16333 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel ready for it then you are definately not ready for it. Try to explain that you want to wait a while. If he loves you he'll understand. If he leaves you then he's no good anyway.
2007-02-10 04:07:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you aren't ready yet. if he really loves you he can respect that for the time being. however if he wants to move alot faster than you, then you might want to break up with him and go out with somone who is more your speed.
2007-02-10 04:03:38 · answer #6 · answered by Shamus O'Larry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it for your boyfriend!!!! That is something you would do for yourself not for a man. You sound really young, and clearly you don't want to do it so don't. If he gets mad or breaks up with you, he didn't love you to begin with. If he loves you he will understand.
2007-02-10 04:05:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then listen to your intuition and tell him exactly what you said here. If he loves you, then he will be willing to wait until your comfortable. If he's not, then tell him to take a hike.
2007-02-10 04:05:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT DO IT!!! having sex before marriage is the 1st step to ruining your life. listen, i used to be a teenage boy myself. i would tell a girl anything to get her pants off. especially i love you. heres how you can tell if he really does. tell him you dont want to, and your not going to, and he should respect your wishes. if he gets mad or breaks up with you, i dont guess he loves you enough does he. plz plz plz dont dont dont do do do it it it.
2007-02-10 04:10:11 · answer #9 · answered by earlanon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just how old are you? And what have you learned in health class?
2007-02-10 04:03:31 · answer #10 · answered by Will 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋