i really hate my self !?!?

Question

im nothing sepcial. not bad not good not best no worst .. whys that?
i really hate my self when im around this girl. shes rich/goodlooking/great personallity/loving family/good creer n everything
i really hate my self around here !!!!!!!!
she reminds me of the fact that shes everything im not
i dont hate her or anything.
in fact she likes me a lot
but.... !!!
its not about dating.. its all about MY SELF
i hate it when in a group and im not the best looking
dont you ?
honestly?

Answer 1

you need to change your attitude towards life and that is a start.

you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. i think you are just starting to see the real world and its good that you are honest to admit what it is wrong with you. its not that you hate yourself, its a pity, these two are different from one another.

you need to accept the facts and that will lead you to a normal lives. you need to work on things to improve what is lacking on your life. your rich friend is just lucky that she is born in that kind of life. in order for you to feel same level with her, strive harder and prove yourself that you can achieve those things in life as well.

study hard if you are in school, look for a good job that will appreciate you if you finish school, the main thing here is change the course that you are in. you need to focus on positive, remove bad thoughts, write things you want to accomplish in life, read articles or book to improve your knowledge on things you wanted to achieve and most of all, speak out and continue being honest of your true feelings. this way, other will fully understand where you are coming from and be able to assist.

Answer 2

Self Hate: you have accomplished something you're able to no longer have and you punish your self for it you dislike something approximately your self and it grows into greater proper thoughts of hate you experience in charge you're insecure you have suffered abuse and interior someway you experience you're in part in charge you experience a failure you haven't any longer any pals Self harm reducing the exterior unfavourable or risky behaviour, at the same time with misusing alcohol or drugs

Answer 3

Stop being so hard on yourself. You're a beautiful person. The sooner you figure that out, the better. Work on your self esteem. Get counseling if you must. Don't put yourself down, you have a lot to offer this world and things will get better when you realize that.

Answer 4

I hate it when i'm in a group & i am d worst looking...but i don't mind not being d best looking. You hate yourself just because of that? I hate myself for not having anything the best in physical terms, but what can i do? Maybe my best has not surfaced yet...others don't even have some things I have. But don't you think you should be happy & proud that this girl who is "everything" would like someone like you who is "nothing"? Maybe you should read inspirational stories of people who survived (& even excel!) despite their handicap or nothingness.

Answer 5

lI am now a 67 year old grandfather but I am not so old that I cannot remember the personal trauma of my teen years which included many of your own worries. Beleive me when I say that every young person is disatisfied in some way with their lot. Try not to dwell on it just remember that all of your friends are experiencing the same problems inside .It is just that they are very skilled at hiding it from you.

Answer 6

No ones perfect. She probably has haemorroids.

And besides - even the most beautiful people have hang ups, disappointments, tragedies, etc.

So start concentrating on yourself instead of being distracted by someone else who's probably no better than yourself!

Answer 7

Beauty is skin deep.
Either you are beautiful inside
(in which case you don't value vanity)
or you need to work on making yourself less artificially competitive with peers
cos that leads to unhappiness...
Yeh, learn to LOVE yourself
& then you'll stop having immature self-doubts
that distort your understanding of what you are supposed to be doing & where you need to be heading...

Answer 8

You're not worse you said. Here is why: appearances are like the sun on the moon, it gives an illusion of difference by its forms, but essentially remains the same.

Answer 9

We have little choice in the manor we're born. In life we must learn to play the cards we're dealt. So stop feeling sorry for yourself and get on with it.

Answer 10

Your question reads like a particuarly bad Morrissey song.