i finally told my mother i lost my "v-card" after like a year. was that a good thing?
2007-02-10 03:06:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
yea...shes an ok mom when i told her she was cool with it but i jus dont want her questioning me about it all the time now
2007-02-10 03:12:25 · update #1
i think that was a excellent thing to have done, especially if you and your Mom have that close of a relationship that is wonderful.
I'm sure at first she might have been a bit dissappointed to know, but honestly every MOM will know where you are coming from as to the "reason" behind you doing it. It's just a terrific thing to see when Mom/Daughters have such close relationships that they can trust one another enough to confide.
(*HUGS*) and I think you did the right thing!!
2007-02-10 07:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by msheatherd28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its good you told her. My mom found out when i was in the hospital cause a doc asked me while she was in the room. yes she questioned me for weeks but i feel better knowing she knows. So now when i hang out with say an ex she always tells me to be safe, etc. i think it brings your relationship with your mom and you closer cause you know for sure that if you told your dad you wouldnt have been able to type that question, lol.
2007-02-10 22:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by redheadedbandgeek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is great that you could tell your mother. But you know you have opened up and door and she is going to be concerned. I am sure she is going to want you to take all the right precautions and try you best to not have sex. What kind of mother would she be if she didn't ask and want to know if you were staying safe.. you know. Think about it like she would. You are her baby.. no matter how old you are.
2007-02-10 11:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by luvthbaby2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think itsgood that u told ur mom but just make sure that she understands you arent sleeping with everyone you meet now(unless you are).I think waiting a year was a good decision but i think it was a good decision to tell ur mom
2007-02-10 11:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by cutie123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a good thing you told your mom!
2007-02-12 20:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by Apfel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is great that you have such a close relationship and confidence with your mom. You did it right. just check out if everything realted to your health is fine.
2007-02-10 11:26:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very goog.You must reveal alwayl what is in your heard at smb.And also now she will trust you for everything.
2007-02-10 12:51:50 · answer #7 · answered by natalia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what sort of relationship you have with her my daughter told me when she was 17 and asked me to go to family planning with her which i did
2007-02-10 12:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by andrea.barrett36 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing, now maybe she can get you on the pill and tested for std and aids
2007-02-10 11:09:45 · answer #9 · answered by wheezerthill 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF you have that kind of relationship, great. I would have sooner died than tell my mom.
2007-02-10 11:08:30 · answer #10 · answered by sarcastro1976 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋