Me and my mate are on about going to a swingers party. Is it ok for two single straight guys to go without girls in tow ! If so where do we go ?
2007-02-10 03:04:14 · 13 answers · asked by lenisthenuts 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
maybe look on swingingheaven web site for venues
2007-02-10 03:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most swinger parties do not allow single men because many single men end-up doing some really stupid and lecherous things that offend couples. They don't understand that the women are not the costar in their personal little porn fantasy going on inside their head. They are a woman like any other and should be treated the same.
It never ceases to amaze me how some single men will say things to my wife at a club or in an email to us that they would never say to a single gal they met at a regular bar. It's like they think that since we are swingers that it's a 24/7 orgy for us and that she'll bang anyone, anytime. They don't realize that dating swinger couples is like dating single women, you're just dating a couple instead. The same stupid pick-up lines and behavior that would get you shot-down or even slapped by a single girl at a night club will get the same response from a swinger wife.
So to keep the couples coming back to the club, most clubs won't allow single men because so many just don't understand the rules of engagement.
2007-02-10 13:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most of the swingers that I know tell me that they are strictly "no stag" events. The whole idea of swinging is swapping lovers. You're not welcomed at all if you don't bring a girl with you. Gay swingers is another story.
2007-02-10 11:19:14 · answer #3 · answered by Ricky J. 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Swingers groups don't usually allow single people. Swinging is something straight or bi couples do, hence the word "swinging". Its not simply a place for two guys who can't get dates to do to get laid. Sorry.
2007-02-10 11:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
So you and your mate just want to get laid then. I can't imagine any swingers parties will be too pleased with two guys on their own, although perhaps you could get off with each other.
2007-02-10 11:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by f0xymoron 6 · 7⤊ 1⤋
It's almost always not OK, otherwise the number of men would always greatly exceed the number of women, making it rather uncomfortable for the women, which then continues the vicious cycle of smaller proportions of women.
2007-02-10 16:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
10 Acacia avenue Birningham. Be there at 10pm. oh and bring a bottle!
2007-02-10 11:22:09 · answer #7 · answered by bingabong 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
swingers have to bring their female counterparts... or e;se there is nothing to swing with...unless you are both gay ..then that sets the table differently...doesn't it?
2007-02-10 11:09:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do you know where Piazza Duomo in Milano is ? I'll be holding a sign.
2007-02-10 11:07:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
swinging is for couples.... I assume what you're actually looking for here is an orgy or just free sex. good luck with that.
2007-02-10 11:09:37 · answer #10 · answered by G*I*M*P 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋