My boyfriend and I celebrated our Valentine's Anniversary lastnight. He took me out to eat. And I got him a memory box with all sorts of stuff I made for him. He liked it.
For some reason, I want more. I want him to atleast give me a card, or a stuffed animal, or flowers. I just want something to look at and think of our first anniversary together.
Lastnight honestly just felt like any other day we hung out. Except we went out and ate... by ourselves. He dressed up though when he said he didn't want to. I thought that was sweet.
Last Valentine's Day, he asked me out with a card he made, a little stuffed animal, and a bag of chocolates he got for me.
I told him thank you for dinner. I didn't tell him I just wanted a little stuffed animal or perhaps a card also. I didn't want to hurt him.
I feel like an a s s for feeling this way. This is our first anniversary together... actually my first anniversary EVER.
Am I weird for feeling like I want more? What should I do?
2007-02-10 02:59:10 · 3 answers · asked by Rita 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
Wow It's been a long time since I had a first anniversary but I'll give it a shot.
My wife actively complains to me about not feeling she got "enough" on any given occasion. But we have 13 years of marriage to back that up. It took a while for us to learn how to hear those things without being offended. Now when one of us doesn't "feel" right we tell each other. You are not wrong for feeling the way you do. You are never wrong for having a feeling. You need to be honest with him. He may not even know he was supposed to do something. He also may be waiting for the big day itself. You could be jumping the gun so to speak.
I know that after the fact it's like why bother but if you feel this way and don't tell him you will never have the problem fixed. Give him a chance to make it right but be honest with him.
Good luck and don't panic it takes ALOT of work for a relationship to work.
2007-02-10 03:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by 84cj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No Its perfectly normal I felt the same way when my bf forgot our 1 month anniversary and didn't even think about it. I think that you should just let it past guys sometimes forgot things and its not their fault stuff happens.
2007-02-10 11:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by zoeybrookes9277 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'i think u should be honest and tell him how u feel.theres nothing to be guilty about.wanting a mememto of a happy time is romantic and maybe he shoulda known.
2007-02-10 11:15:45 · answer #3 · answered by tding49 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋