Everytime i meet new people as friends, whenever I start getting close or I feel like I"m getting close I tend to push away but unconsciouly. The only reason I know I'm doing this is that they usually let me know indirectly that i'm acting kind of weird and that in a way pushes them away as well. I'm not sure why I do it. it's like I'm afraid to get close or I fear rejection or something. It doesnt make any sense because I am afraid to be alone even though at times I tend to deny it. I mean I don't mind being alone because I have loner characteristics but these people I would say are the first that I would consider 'close friends'. Everyone else are aquaintances. I have difficulty keeping people close to me. I don't know what I should do.
2007-02-10 02:56:06 · 4 answers · asked by . 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I do think that I'm weird. That's why I dont let myself get too close to others. I spend most of my time by myself and i never thought it was a problem until my family pointed it out. I mean I enjoy my own company, not many people can do that. I dont know.....
2007-02-10 03:06:59 · update #1
We're all weird. lol That's what makes us each unique individuals. There's a place for each of us in this vast universe. I love all my friends. I tend to gravitate towards the silly, goofy, weird, rejects, etc. They are the most REAL ppl I've ever gotten the pleasure of knowing! So keep on being REAL. I'm glad you've accomplished (or born with) the idea of loving yourself enough to enjoy your own company. There is nothing wrong with being a loner. The only time it's considered to be a problem is when the "loner" doesn't want to be a lone anymore. Your fine! Stop being so judgmental...give yourself a break. Do something fun today! Enjoy life not the critics!
2007-02-10 03:17:14 · answer #1 · answered by HeavenlyAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh you are like my twin. I have always enjoyed my company too and i do push people away but not intentionally. I don't think you are weird at all i think you are just different and unique which is not a bad thing by the way ok?
2007-02-10 11:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by kiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, the same thing happens to me. Just be yourself around people. If they think you'r too "weird" or "crazy" then they wouldn't be good friends anyway. Friends should like you for you and you shouldn't waste your time on anyone who thinks you are weird. Basically all I have to say is just be yourself.
2007-02-10 11:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by KT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are alot of reasons why u might do that,but the bottom line is if their ur really good friends they"ll understand..have a talk with them n explain..it will help u and them...gl girl..i went thru that with my best female friend..at least u admitted it she never did.she rather go from one person to another.it totally destroy our relationship,and friendship..whats bad is she meant the world to me..dont let that happen to u...gl
2007-02-10 11:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋