I have known this guy for couple of months.... we were like just friends..but things kinda went weird and we are now intimately involved..I am sure he does not love me....but I would like to give him something nice this valentines and try telling him how much he means to me...I think this is one last chance to see what he thinks...plz help....
2007-02-10 02:51:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
I believe both of you are intimate but yet he is telling you things like he can't commit to a relationship with you yet he has good feelings of you. As much as you hate to admit, I hate to say you are likely to be a substitute for his boredom/desperation. However, I could see that you are very attracted to him and you show signs of being drained out of energy. You feel you can't walk further. You need him to tell you he loves you and have plans for the future so that you feel recharged. Else, you hope he tells you the truth that he doesn't love you, you make a U-turn.
A pair of rings is the most direct and effective test equipment. Guy or girl, as long as they love the other party, they would be very willing to put the ring on their wedding finger even before the wedding day. Its a cruel fact that you may be made use of physically, however, I still wish you success, coz I believe never try, you never know the answer. You may not be loved but the least thing you can feel happy is that you know how to love someone. Whatever way it turns out, hope you still believe in true love exist and it'll come to you one day. Good stuff.....
2007-02-10 03:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by henry_fy7d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, the safest thing you can give a man that you have feelings for, but are not sure of his exact feelings for you, is a book. I have male friends who are into poetry, the Bible, Self-help, quotes, history, etc. A sure thing is to get a good book...preferably something that you think might be of interest to him. Also, movie, sports or concert tickets - this way you can go with him and he can see that you are interested too. Take him somewhere he might want to go, but might not want or have the money to spend on himself. When in doubt - a very, very nice card would do. There are cards that say everything these days!
2007-02-10 03:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think he loves you, then I wouldn't worry about getting him something to "show him how much he means to you (me)." I would get him some candy, or, a gift card to Best Buy or something. If you are starting to have feelings for him, and, they are not returned, you should truly re-evaluate your situation. We have all been there atleast once. Well, in my world, anyway. Good luck to you!
2007-02-10 02:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by jessiekarma 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all. you cannot Love anyone in 2 months.
second, keep in the back of your mind, he is a guy. most guys want one thing. there are few that want more (dinner before :) just kidding). look for the guys that want more
depends on wat type of person he is.
this will sum it up.
Get him something usefull. if he works on cars, get the tool he has been needing.
if he is a geek, pretty much anything from thinkgeek.com will work (i want the laser keyboard)
cowboy hats are always good.
2007-02-10 02:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him some kind of valentine's day gift card combined with candy.
2007-02-10 03:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by longnosedquoll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should, someone once told me "loving someone who loves you back, it's narcisism, loving someone who doesn't love you, now, that's love" and valentine's about love, right?
2007-02-10 02:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by chato_mc 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋