I've only been married for 2 months. I've been trying to conceive. My first month failed. Now is my second month. My last period was on 25th Jan and my next period will be on 27th Feb (estimated). Through out these two months, I've been studying about ovulation and fertility kinda stuff. I'm tired and kinda frustrated. Waiting everyday, and not to know when am I fertile. And if I get my period later, I'll be upset, again coz I know it failed. But then, I seriously dun understand much about fertility. I've read, some says 11 - 21 days from ur period. Some says I m most fertile on the 19th Feb. They are all very confusing. Any website that can help to explain more on ovulation / fertility thingy? Thanks.
2007-02-10 02:49:12 · 15 answers · asked by Bun#2 in the oven 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
don't feel frustrated it is only 2 months u have been trying average couple takes a year to concieve,but some can concieve early 2 month is very soon to get tired,don't loose hope,try typing on to google trying to concieve and it will it self take u to the appropriate site
2007-02-10 02:54:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm frustrated ttc and i've been trying for nearly a year.But you have to accept that these things take time and the more you stress about it the more time it will take. The best thing i can suggest is just finding out when you ovulate by your body because every women is different and sometimes you can ovulate early which these tests can't predict. Do you experience any pain during ovulation? I get a sharp pain either side, do you get a rise in temp? do you get more discharge or a change in colour? most people get a discharge which is like the white of an egg. Monitor these and then you will know every month what to look out for. But the most important again is not to stress and become obsessed, just have fun!Good luck, x
2007-02-10 03:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by shygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay you have only been married for 2 months and no luck. Chill out. I waited 2 1/2 years before having my first child. It is now 3 years later and we are going thru all the same problems again. When you go to a doctor and have all the testing done, then you can complaine about not able to conceive.
2007-02-10 03:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it can be frustrating and overwelming. Try tcoyf.com. A really good website and so is babycenter.com. A good book is the taking charge of your fertility by Toni. W.
Take a break. Dont worry about it anymore and just have sex. Too much stress about it can cause you to delay ovulation or cause havic on your body. Just keep in mind when you ovulate and have sex and enjoy. If you get pregnant then great, if not then that just bring you closer and closer to your goal. Believe me, your time will come when it is meant to be. Good luck Hon.
2007-02-10 02:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by Mum to 2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me four years of ttc every month to have my first baby. The typical timing is about six months. I know that you want it to happen right away. It is good that you want to educate yourself on fertility. Try typing "trying to conceive" in google and about 6 million hits come up. A good book to read is "Taking Charge of Your Fertility". I hope it will happen for you soon. Good luck.
Mom of two!
2007-02-10 04:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't the answer you want, but if you're this down and frustrated after only 2 months, you should stop TTC and let nature take its course for a while, especially until you know more and are more confident in what's going on with your body. And it never hurts to talk to a doctor.
2007-02-10 04:38:05 · answer #6 · answered by desiderio 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have only been trying for 2 months and u r already tired of it. maybe u shouldnt try anymore. in case u didnt realize babies grow into kids and then to teenagers and the to adults. if u r already tired of it... what makes u think u arent going to get tired of ur kid? i have been trying for over a year and i have read many people who have been trying for much longer then that. really think about it before u keep trying. sure it gets frustrating and hard but so is mother hood. maybe those r the things u should be thinking about instead of getting pregnant
2007-02-10 02:57:23 · answer #7 · answered by want a princess baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try finding the ovalution calculator on the web. It actually help you to fnd out which days you ovalute.
Dun give up. I've been trying for a few years and now gg through all test and taking medicine too.
Best of luck.
2007-02-10 03:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by F T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, once you've been on birth control for awhile it is going to definitly take a even as, so dont get too annoyed, in case you havent been on birth control and also you try, dont hassle a lot about tryig to concieve, the more effective you imagine about it the wrse you'll stress over it in case you basically hassle about being a sturdy mate on your husband andpleasing your husband and relax the better an quicker it is going to take position, trust me. Dont confront him, quite of worrying about him getting drained of attempting basically try new issues interior the mattress room, make him experience like you're being romantic and loving quite ofmaking it about the job of attempting to concieve. sturdy success
2016-10-17 06:21:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi dont give up most healthy couples can try for a year with no luck and drs say that is normal but most the time when you are not trying is when it will happen try going to www.mymonthlycycle.com and www.whattoexpect.com the monthly cyle web site has charting to help you keep up with all of your cycles and to know when you should try good luck to you and lots of baby dust
2007-02-10 02:56:14 · answer #10 · answered by BlessedMommyof3.. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋