i sometimes feel emotionless... i tend to hurt people deeply... and take no notice for that... and hardly care... my bf got him stressed too much cuz of me... and wants me to be happy... dont know how's he and my family enduring me..?
why do i feel so? and what should i do about it?
2007-02-10 02:26:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Hi - There can be many causes of being disconnected from your emotions. It would be unfair to try to draw a conclusion altogether in a forum like this but, being able to recognize it and care about it probably means it can be changed.
First, decide that every person is equal to you - no one is better or worse than you - you have strengths and weaknesses, and so do they. If you hurt people and don't care, why is that? Is it just to help you with your own pain or frustrations? Never hurt someone at their expense - you need to heal your issues on your own.
I would say that you need to learn to be a servant - that means learn to enjoy seeing others happy more than you enjoy anything about yourself. Do something nice for someone and enjoy the heck out of it. When you do for others it gets the focus off of you, and it feels great. Make it a lifestyle - become known for being a person who loves and helps other people.
Also - where are you at with God? It all comes back to him - we cannot find or do all we need in our own strength - we need our Creator.
And - nothing wrong with talking to a good counselor if you think you need to. It can be a safe place to get your feelings out.
God Bless - that warm heart came out in your words - let it take over.
2007-02-10 02:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
To feel alive, you must invite the Creator of life into your heart. Only the Lord can change you and put love in your heart that you desperately need.
In most homes there is a Bible. If you can't find one, then borrow one from a neighbor or friend.
Bow your head, close your eyes, be still, Ask Jesus to come into your life and fill the void and emptiness that you feel.
Keep reading the Bible (Book of Psalms, Proverbs or John) are good places to start. Don't stop asking Jesus to come into your life until He comes. You must seek Him with all your heart that you have until one day He shows up and YOU ARE CHANGED.
2007-02-10 02:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL........ well... i guess im not alone....
i too am sorta emotionless.... i always say that im the opposite of emo.... if thats even possible...
we care, but just not as much......
its just the way we were made... genetics maybe... i dont know what ur gonna do about it... but me.. for right now... im just gonna sit tight and let the world go round and round.....
ok... my best guess is to try to be happy when ur with ur boy... tell him to do something you like... you two can do it together..... or maybe you need to get an emo boyfriend so you'll be opposites..... lol... good luck..
2007-02-10 02:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Strangely, you sound like a man. This is the way guys feel almost all of the time. Maybe you are just low on estrogen. See a doctor about getting some hormone supplements!
2016-05-25 00:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋