...or do you have a Foul Weather Friend ...!!!????
If yes ...why are you ... or why do you keep them as friends.. ?
As foul weather friends are basically the friends that are always jealous of you ... and hate it when you are doing well, but always there to ''comfort you'' in a disaster or crisis... in their smug manner...
..this is not really aimed at guys.
Why would anyone not be happy ... if their friend was doing well ??
doubt i'll get many answers... ;-)) ....as usual
2007-02-10 02:12:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
no i had one and she pissed me off so much i changed her name to "do not answer" on my phones so i hardly ever hear or see from her anymore.
2007-02-10 02:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have a friend that is always there to voice her opinion when life is hard, and her opinions and advice would often make the situation worse if I took it. If things are going good, she often puts me down, and if get a pair of shoes, she's always got a pair that are 100x more expensive and she would never wear anything from any of the shops that I shop in. She earns double what I do, and she doesn't know what i earn.
When I sat down with her, and asked her why she was like this with me, it was apparently because I'm a bad friend who is never there for her. Nowt strange as folk!!
2007-02-10 16:56:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to be jealous of someone. Everyone works for what they want and don't get everything at times. If a even know a friend of mine which is jealous of me, I'd pray for them, because there is not need for it. Just leads to negative terms.
Krazy Libra
2007-02-10 10:18:43 · answer #3 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems that important questions don't get a lot of answers.
No, I don't keep jealous friends around me. I don't have time for that crap. And I am not jealous of my friends either. I love where I am in life and what I have going for me. I wouldn't want to trade places with anyone.
2007-02-10 10:16:37 · answer #4 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not, I'm there for good times and hard times, whenever my friends need or want me. The same goes for them too, had a few in the past, but once you realise what they are doing, you lose them as friends.
2007-02-10 10:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by Ellie L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recall a young woman, when I was in college, who always seemed to find me when I was suffering or embarrassed, who was always there to listen when I was worried about my grades, to console when I lost a boyfriend, to hold me and comfort me when I failed. It took me awhile to figure out that she was the leak in my life. She was bleeding me for information and delighting in spilling my sorrow to our crowd. My first lesson in true evil. Funny. She is now a journalist for the NY Times.
2007-02-10 10:35:46 · answer #6 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually have a friend that calls herself a best friend that acts in exactly this way. I wish the best for her but as time goes on we grow more and more apart. I HATE FRIENDS LIKE THIS!!
2007-02-10 10:16:55 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have one who buys the same clothes as me, does her hair the same as me, lost weight when i lost weight, dyed her hair the same when i dyed mine! bought the same glasses as me! went and bought the next best car as me! decorated her house like mine! flirted with my hubby at our wedding! started acting like me! now speaks the way i do....
you know what though....
its funny at first, but jeese does it get on your ****......
2007-02-10 10:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by im*horny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...and no...
men make much better friends...females being both fickle and self serving in so many respects...;0)
2007-02-10 15:23:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋