someone in college always walk with me
when i talk to friends he intrupts me and talk to them
he look depresse wat can i do?
2007-02-10 02:03:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
He is not abusing you. He is just disturbing you. Are you close with this guy? Because if you are,then it shouldn't be a problem for you to tell him how you feel.
If he doesn't accepts it,then you shouldn't hang out with him anymore. He's not a good friend. But I'm worried that he might do it because of something else too. He might be gay and he likes you. MAYBE....Hope you don't mind.
2007-02-10 02:13:04 · answer #1 · answered by FloralLover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call this abuse, but it is a lack of respect. I would pick an appropriate time when you are alone with this person and calmly tell them, when you interrupt me in front of other people and take over the conversation, you make me feel as though what I have to say is not important. See where the conversation goes from there. If he gets irate and defensive about it, don't waste your time arguing with this person. If he is willing to listen to you and work on the problem then it is a friendship worth keeping. As for him looking depressed, let him know that if there is anything going on with him that he needs to talk about, then you are there to listen. Depression is no matter to play around with. If you truly feel he is depressed then maybe you should suggest that he talk to a school counselor or the campus physician. Depression makes people act in ways and say things they normally wouldn't do, this could be a reason for him disrespecting you in the conversations with friends. Good Luck.
2007-02-10 10:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by Cathy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to be assertive and tell him that you would like him to stop following you around.. say 'look, i really mean it, i dont want you to follow me any more, i dont want to hang out with you'.
if that doesnt work, ask a friend or a few friends to tell him to stop following you around.
if that doesnt work, then ask a teacher to tell him to stop following you around.
if he is depressed, that isnt your problem, unless you want to get involved. if you do want to get involved and talk to him, then you could just ask him how his life is at the moment... get him talking about life.
good luck
addition:
please ignore the few idiots posting rude and abusive comments here... you asked a good question
2007-02-10 10:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by Zag 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you're in college because I could barely read that. Anyway, he doesn't sound like he's abusing you. He does sound like he's annoying you. Tell him to leave you alone.
2007-02-10 10:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by Groovy 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Kick his ***, it will be better in the long run. I have made many friends by having my *** kicked or kicking someone elses ***. If they want nothing to do with you after the fight, then they were never going to be a friend
2007-02-10 10:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by Brian D 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
rep0rt him t0 the faculty 0r c0nsel0r in y0ur sch0ol...
but maybe he just wants t0 befriend y0u....
make sure first
2007-02-10 10:10:58 · answer #6 · answered by Lain 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him I said to stop it.
2007-02-10 11:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋