im currently involve in a 21 year old lady... we're both girl... we both don't know who's the lesbian... but we really love each other and i don't wanna let her go... and i don't want to lose her... she's a part of me now and and i don't know what to do if i lose her... she's very special to me... in a way that i want to tell the whole world how much i love her and how special she is.
2007-02-10 01:48:28 · 16 answers · asked by anonymousme11 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
What do you mean you both don't know who's the lesbian? Umm that would be both of you...and if you both love each other, what is the problem???
2007-02-10 02:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by mamadeira_09 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Bravo on finding and cherishing love! Who cares what the labels are. Does it really matter "who's the lesbian" when you compare that small worry to the enormity of your feelings and commitment to each other? People will try to label you and pigeonhole you (be careful -- most will be unkind or even hostile, even family and friends), but your job is to focus on your relationship. If you want it to continue, treat it no differently than if you were a hetero couple. Communication, respect, and patience will be just as important. Good luck.
2007-02-10 03:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by lucy_ritter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 06:21:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.u r both lesbians or at least not straight all the way.i think u should hold on to the person if she means much to u.what's the problem?if u have different preferences in sexual arias, it's ok, u shouldn't be ashamed.
2007-02-10 01:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by krissa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lasting relationships are also equal partnerships. You really don't need to define the "role" of your partner. Believe it or not you have a healthy and well grounded relationship. Congratulations and I wish you a long and prosperous future.
2007-02-10 03:02:39 · answer #5 · answered by Ricky J. 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no one is 100% straight, almost everyone at some poit feels some atraction for someone of the same sex, there's nothing against nature and there's nothing to be ashamed of.
2007-02-10 02:18:40 · answer #6 · answered by chato_mc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it you've got something special just go with flow.
2007-02-10 01:56:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me? What's the question here?
2007-02-10 01:51:10 · answer #8 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So you love her. whats the problem?
2007-02-10 01:51:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I love you too!
2007-02-13 04:10:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋