What I mean is do you have a "spouse" at work or school- a person of the opposite sex that you totally trust and confide in within the realm of your work environment. Obviously, we cant talk to our real spouse about everything that goes on at work or at school because they just don't understand everything that's going on. Also, we have a need to have someone we can trust in our work environment. Studies have shown that people tend to have relationships in the workplace/school that mimic marriage. What do you think about this?
2007-02-10 01:26:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes its true!!!
2007-02-10 01:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't have two spouses but there is someone in my life I would confide in more than my ex spouse. He & I would b a great match because I trust him completely which i am probably crazy to do. Hes a player but something is there w/ him like noone eles.I think it is there w/ him too but it conflicts w/ his wife. I would love to b close to his wife because I love him that much but I don't think it could ever b cuz shes a control friek.She does have spunk though from what Ive heard.Our relationship is at this time not there at the moment bc he made his choice. Maybe 1 day he'll see the light. I wish him happiness. I want the best 4 him . His feelings r so important to me . It hurts me always b/c I miss him ,the trust ,so much.I just hope God recognizes whats in my heart. I care very much 4 my husband whom Ive seperated from but hes lost my trust. How I would love to have what we once had again but life has a way of changing things.I once felt this way w/ him but he ruined that. So i just live day to day hopeing God will bless me again . It is true when he takes something away he gives something back.
2007-02-10 02:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see what you are saying it is easy to fall into this when you are spending too much time with someone who is not your spouse or talking to this person about things you should be talking to your spouse about. I am married and it was long distance for a while and I almost got caught up in that with an Ex. I had to deal with the issues in my marriage because there were obviously some and one major one was communication. My opinion is that is does not last, you eventually have to choose one.
2007-02-10 01:48:28 · answer #3 · answered by poetprincess 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that once you take the decision to marry someone you should find a person that you can confide in....thik about it....after years when you are old what's left there?beauty?no way!!it's communication!!!!if you find someone else that you can trust more that your spouse that your marriage (relationship) is not genuine anymore.of course one can have friends in which to confide but there should always be "the one".
2007-02-10 01:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by bebelusha 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have one husband who I do in fact confide in. When you are married you trust that person with your life.
2007-02-10 03:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by Christina A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not true, husbands and wives should be able to talk to each other about everything!!
2007-02-10 02:19:01 · answer #6 · answered by lizzybit64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true, husbands and wives confide in each other.
2007-02-10 01:30:39 · answer #7 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm the only in this abode that leaves the meaningless notes. the unhappy element is that if i do no longer positioned them interior the microwave, coffeepot, or someother kitchen equipment, he won't locate them....
2016-12-17 06:39:01 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,,,,,,,,,, if it's true that other relationships fullfill our emotional needs, and it's a marriage/ type well,
,,,,,than I must be bi.
but yes,,,,,, I agree everyone can't be everything for one person
2007-02-10 13:22:36 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't i don't have either im seprated
2007-02-10 01:30:32 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋