Why did American men lost interest in American women ?

Question

I know I know men around all over the world lament about their women sometimes, but when I hear the majority of Americans talking about women, damn, Turbomegarejection. Sure they will sleep with them, if they are not too frightend to catch some virus, but beyond that... Guys are American women really so much worse than women from other cultures and if so what do you think did change that led American men to reject American women as partners or to prefer women from different cultures.

Dear wendy, when did generalizations became evil ? If I want to talk about a certain thopic it makes sense to generalize. You talk about nazi germany too if you want to discuss the nazi era although in fact not all Germans joined the party. That guy who hopped around tibet annoying tibetans instead of brutalizing Europe sure didnt. From now on please stop shrieking when people generalize, thank you.

Dear wendy, when did generalizations became evil ? If I want to talk about a certain thopic it makes sense to generalize. You talk about nazi germany too if you want to discuss the nazi era although in fact not all Germans joined the party. That guy who hopped around tibet annoying tibetans instead of brutalizing Europe sure didnt. From now on please stop shrieking when people generalize, thank you.

Quite the opposite Wendy. For some reason American women are VERY promiscious at least in the big cities and especially in college areas. Again I do not want to generalize, but as long as sex was all I wanted I did never had to invest so little effort to get snatch like in America, at least the America the world cares about. Free hoes.

Wendy not in the us i do not do hooker, why should I if a girl plans to drag me to court I just leave the country. Generalizations make a person look stupid ? How so ? I suspect you just dont LIKE what I said, it does not make you feel good and therefore instead of facing the topic you call the topic and me stupid. If I say American women I do not mean ALL American women, please try to focus, you cant be that stupid that you can not focus on the men I was talking about or the topic at hand, or are you ? Maybe you are just really smart trying to bring the topic off track by talking about something unrelated.

Answer 1

Oh, my aching heart!!!!!
Because American women are so unglamorous, unaffectionate, and uneducated ... it is appalling how our sisters in the world outstrip us in spades ...... we are so concerned with things
that don't work, like being "sexy" and young, and
liberated, that we are never sexy, young, or liberated. Or educated. Women's education is in shambles. For ex: I went to a private, progressive women's college, and they have gone and turned co-ed. For heaven's sake, we need some time to work on ourselves. When do we get that?

Someone once asked a French woman how to be sexy. "Sexy? Sexy?" she replied. "What is this with 'sexy?' Either you are sexy or you are not! You cannot BECOME sexy!"


You know, we are so stupid ...
We neglect ourselves so badly .... when it is considered a drudgery to look beautiful, or to take pride in our culinary skills, or to be very very nice to our husbands ... when we don't pride ourselves in the way our children have turned out...that is really sad. Why should any man
look at us when we are, as one Frenchman put it, as glamorous as a bicycle? Honestly.

It is lunch time, thank heavens and I can quit. This is making me sad.

peace & love

p.s. ..for your headline: it is either "did ...lose" or "have ...lost" ...OK? Cheers!

Answer 2

Maybe, the question should be why would an American girl want to marry an American guy? There are two sides to every story. The relationships that ended in divorce, what was the reason? I think that society as a whole is changing the roles that men and women traditionally held. No longer is it that the woman stays home and does the cooking and cleaning. For most couples, it is necessary that the wife have to work and take care of the household duties. While it seems that the men still only have to take on the role of breadwinner. I'm sure that money losses happen to both parties of the relationship. Maybe you're right and people should just live together. One more thought, if American women are not good enough maybe you should consider not living in America!!!!

Answer 3

Wow, you love those all-consuming generalizations, don't you! Not ALL American men have, not even most (that I've encountered) and the ones that have are not the ones that American WOMEN would want, anyway. So, maybe it was the American women who lost "interest" in these men in the first place. Sounds like you've experienced some "turbomegarejection" yourself, and are just projecting that onto women.

EDIT--Generalizations do a disservice to everyone, especially the person doing the generalizing...they usually come off sounding unintelligent. IN GENERAL (wink) the person speaking in overwhelming generalities does so because it's satisfying, not because the thing itself is even true. As for American women being "easier" (another generalization) my understanding is that American women are much more uptight about sex than in other Western cultures, but the "fact" is you haven't given ANY facts to back up your assertions, so why should anyone believe that you are doing anything other than trying to disparage American women? If you have any "facts" or statistics about how American men have "lost interest", or about how much "trampier" American women are, please do share! Besides, I thought you only "entertained" hookers, so of course, they are "slutty." If you have no problem "getting it" for free (from all of the promiscuous American girls) why are paying for it?

Answer 4

I guess I didn't know this either. But I would say they have because American women are so self-sufficient these days. We don't need a man to "be happy". We can educate ourselves and get a good job. Heck we can even have children without men these days. Don't get me wrong, I am married to man...but just stating my thoughts. My sister who is 25, she says she doesn't need a man. This is where I get my information from. So any guy that approaches her...any little thing that is wrong with them (in her eyes) she won't give them a chance. I think American women have learned to be really picky too. This all forcing American men to look other places to fulfill their needs.

Answer 5

I think that compared to a lot of women around the world American women are more high maintenance, aggressive, too demanding, less affectionate and more of ball busters, which is why American guys prefer foreign born women.

I know I'll anger a lot of American women. I'm half American-half Aussie, dual citizen. Besides, it's just my observation from traveling to different parts of the world.

Answer 6

I must be out of step with the rest of the American males, I love American women.

Answer 7

From my experience with foreigner women, I find foreign women aren't afaird to be feminie. They're proud of it and show it. They like to dress up, look beautiful, be taken care of, tend to be more home bodied, and usually are much easier to keep happy.

American girls tend to have really dumb idea of game. They often drag it on WAY too long that it get old before anything happen. Also few even see more than one guy at once and say "oh we're only dating" when everyone else know she's lying. They basically like to keep thing mysterious as long as possibe that it's ridiculous hard to know who they are or what they want. Also over long term of being in relationship, many women stop trying to look their best. Other big difference I saw are the american women also expect 100% equal plus more. This definitely scare the men off especially since the law system heavily favor the women. They doesn't seems to be happy with what they have or being a woman. It make them look really insecure and insecureness drives men away. Lastly, one thing I REALLY don't like about many american women are they often act like they're superior to everybody. They would treat any men who doesn't meet their unrealistic expect like trash. Don't believe me? Have a male friend of your who is somewhat good looking go to mall and try to talk to few girls, you'll get a perfect exaple.

I've been around many foreigner women (no, not necreassay dating) They tend to be much easier to keep happy, upstraight about things which make communicationing much easier, are more willing to try work things out with men instead of simply demanding it, and they're also more willing to give men a chance. When I was traveling, it's not uncommon for me to meet women at mall, on street, etc... And after few words, I know if she want me to go away or continue to talk. This make me feel more confidient and comfort. Often we end up go out to do something that day. Their friendly and easy to talk with personality make it much easier for men to approach them and communication with them without fear of being consider badly of.

Also other really odd thing I notice is many of them are more willing to get know to me (I'm a deaf guy, not a supermodel but good looking) instead of blow me right off the bat because of my deafness. In USA (my home country) I feel like I basically can't really approach anyone for any reason because of my deafness. I usually can tell immidately they doesn't want to talk to me by paper and pen. So basically I am extremely based toward foreign women because they make me feel like I'm a human, not some unwanted stray animal.

Don't get me wrong, some american women are awesome, but they're really hard to find. So why waste time looking for them when you can meet foreign women and have much more luck?

Answer 8

Mugga Ka Wads got it.

It's because of feminists most of all. Also American women will sue for anything. You talk about their boobs and you get sued for sexual harrassment. So much for freedom of speech.

Answer 9

I didn't know that we did!!!!!! Thanks for the update.