am 14 , and i was abused (phys) 3 times , and when any man see me they just hits on me and touch me and they like to talking with me sexual and ask me to sleep with them , sometimes the swimming coach or the teacher or my father;s cousins or the students that bigger than me, maybe am handsome an clean but am not agay. but now i find my self liking guys . but why they're doing that < before they know that am agay .......... and am wearing boys stuff , am tall and skiny.
2007-02-10 01:02:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First ... Calm down a little... okay ?
Just because you may have some sexual DIFFERENCES, does NOT mean you are a sexual deviant. You can enjoy experiences with your same gender without getting all crazy about it.
But also, you should refuse and rebuke any sexually deviant behavior and approaches... meaning... the adults who are hitting-on you should be TOLD (by you) in NO UNCERTAIN TERMS... that if they don't leave you alone, you will report them to the police.
There is a term in the gay community known as "gaydar". If you recently realized that you are finding yourself attracted to guys... it could simply be your orientation, desire, and choice. It may also be that other gays... those with more experience and with a more active "gaydar"... knew you were gay even before you realized the fact.
Gay is NOT something you CHOOSE... you either ARE attracted to other males (sexually) or you are NOT. Relax... keep the wolves and chicken-hawks off your butt... and find a nice same-age guy with whom you can relate.
2007-02-10 01:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by J Andy A 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you have been sexually abused, then contact the police. Get off the computer and call the cops. Instead of spending time on yahoo answers in the GLBT section, contact someone in authority and tell them your teachers, coach's and family are all forcing you to have sex with them. They will help you.
2007-02-10 09:09:36 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you live in a country that tolerates this type of physical abuse like saudi arabia or some other arab country???? I would leave first chance and live in a civilized country where it is a crime to sexually assault young boys.
Good luck to you.
2007-02-10 09:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by Mon-chu' 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
your eyes speaks louder than your feelings..towards previous rape. report them..
2007-02-10 09:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by Lic. York 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋