AHH the best friend boyfriend who is more important issue. I think you need to understand that the friend may be feeling this way for several reasons. You should look at yourself and her to find out if these are in play here. Did u spend alot of time with her before he came along? is she suddenly not getting as much attention from you? Is she maybe jealous for her own reasons that maybe you are not aware of? like you having a b/f and not her, or does she secretly like your b/f sit back from the situation and really look into it. Your gut should tell you why there is a problem. If not then maybe you need to talk to her and be honest. If she is a real friend it shouldnt be about who is more important, it should be about being there and being happy with you and your decisions
2007-02-10 00:57:47
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answered by lucy_2 2
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Do not even bother. When you get a little older and marry someone is she going to want you to live with her and visit your husband and kids? No one should be stuck in a spot where they feel like they must choose between their lover and a friend. If you have to prove yourself to her, are you 2 equals in your friendship? Could she prove that she is your friend by letting you have a boyfriend? Do his friends pull that crap with him? It is your life not hers.
2007-02-10 09:01:09
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answered by Anonymous
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When you start having boyfriend, your time that used to be spent a lot only with her is now divided between her and your boyfriend. Try to make her understand and you can all hang out together so that she understand your boyfriend is not trying to steal you from her
2007-02-10 09:01:13
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answered by ranselbiru 3
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see im in the same thing well spend more time with her .. my bf lives 35 minz away from me and ma best frd lives lik 2 sec and like she never comes too see mee soo in my story .. everyone told me too spend more time with her tak her out to eat go to tha movies or sumthing .. doo thigns togahter.. to make her feel specail
2007-02-10 08:53:42
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answered by xhetal09x 3
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She is acting like a child, tell her she will always be your best friend, oh and tell her to get a bf,,,,, that is just to creepy and very imature, you both sound really young.
2007-02-10 08:54:54
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answered by sweetemtation_123 4
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maybe for one night ditch your boyfriend if he asks you to do something and then do something with her instead but just tell ur boyfriend what is happening hopefully he will understand if that doesn;t work you should just get a new girlfriend
2007-02-10 08:54:09
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answered by equestrian♥babex2 2
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go like shopping or somthing and just have a girls day out so you two can bond because it sounds like you two are falling apart so just go out and tell her how you really feel.
2007-02-10 11:52:36
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answered by lagunachic07 2
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Y o u a r e o n t h e c o m p u t e r n o w , t y p e p r o p e r l y Y o u ' r e n o t o n y o u r c e l l p h o n e a n y m o r e......Thank you and good day!
2007-02-10 08:58:39
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answered by Eat My Shorts 3
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find some time to spend with your friend and tell her how you feel then.
2007-02-10 08:51:32
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answered by chongthoj 2
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spend more time with her
2007-02-10 09:08:42
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answered by B2B2008 5
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