HELP I think im BI or Lezbian :S Guys and girls answer plz.?

Question

I think I am bi-sexual.
I think girls are pretty hot and yes I want to accutally try going out with a girl but i think ild be judged by other people and I dont know how my mother would take it..

but on the other hand I have this big crush on a guy :(
Im only 16-17 im not sure if its just a fase but i have been like this for as little as i remember iv always looked at the same sex same as the opposite heeeeelllppp!
EEEEP.

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Answer 1

I just want to say that whatever you feel in your heart and in the back of your mind, listen to it, and sure why not even act on it to see how you really feel, Myself, I am in my 40's and a Still Bi-curious Crossdressser and I know that I enjoy bi-encounters, although it has been yrs since, there are times I regret the opportunities I had but didnt act on, but usually the situation or something wouldnt allow 100% privacy, I realized I was a crossdresser at the age of 13, I have had a lot of years that have passed me by and yes there are things I really regret not doing or trying when I had the chance, Dont look back in 20 or 30 years and have regrets, if you try it and like it great,, if you dont like it then you know,, at least if you give yourself the chance to find out, then you can say you tried it no matter what the outcome, Dont have any regrets, if its on your mind - try it you may just really really like it. and you dont have to let your mom know,, it can be your personal secret and some day when you are 20 or 21 if you feel like telling her then cross that bridge when you get to it, and if you have a crush on a guy- well again, you will find out soon enough if its for you or not, "A mind is like a door, its no good if it cant be opened"

Answer 2

i am bi sexual..i have been in a relationship with my female partner of 5 years. My mom totlally freaked the hell out on me..it was really tough to handle but if this is how you want to be deep down in your soul..then you have to stand up for yourself and not think of how others are going to react. They are not you and they dont run your life heart and mind. You are your own person and if anyone has a issue then it is on them and not on you. Accept yourself and be what you feel is right for you and dont let NEONE make you miserable or make you think that you are wrong in how you feel.

Answer 3

Your crush on the guy makes you anything but lesbian, as lesbians are exclusively attracted to their own sex. You may indeed be bisexual, or just bicurious. From what you said, it would seem as though you're already identifying with the bisexual label.

Try not to worry as its perfectly normal. Are you going through a phase? I can't answer that question as I don't know. One thing to bear in mind is that sexual orientation isn't static, and your attractions can vary as you get older.

Answer 4

You alone can tell if you are a lesbian or bi, because if you don't decide now, you will always want to keep telling yourself you are something else.
Can you weigh the feeling you have toward the same sex and the opposite, which one makes your heart glad and make you want to keep dreaming and not wake-up
that is what you are

Answer 5

I think everybody who is honest with herself is bicurious. You don't have to tell anyone about your experiments, especially if it will cause heartache. I give you my permission to give it a try and get it out of your system. You might not be gay after all :)

Answer 6

Yes. You will be judged. No. Your mom won't take it well (at least at first). Still want to try it? Then you just might be bisexual.

Answer 7

no offense but i think i can call this bi-sexual cuz u like both bi means both so yeah but there's nothing wrong u do what u feel like dont refuse it but its just ur feeling

Answer 8

The concept really isn't that complicated.
If you like boys you're straight.
If you like girls you're gay.
If you like both you're bi.
It's just that simple.

Answer 9

You're bisexual. Accept it. And welcome to the community.