I went out with freinds from work and I got really drunk. I ended up sleeping with my 50 year old boss. It was the worst sexual experience of my life. His horrible body on top of me pumping away. Anyway when into work this morning and he called me in to his office. He then put his hand underneath my top and started rubbing my breast telling me that he wants to have an affair with me and he will give me anything I want. I felt uncomfortable but I really like my job. What shall I do ?
2007-02-09 23:51:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Decided I'm going to go for it. Hes loaded so lying on my back a couple of times a week will be worth it.
2007-02-10 02:09:02 · update #1
If you really like the job you must give up on this company. If not you are bringing disgrace to your favourite job and yourself.
2007-02-09 23:54:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't use your body to keep this job!!! Don't degrade yourself like that. Be polite but honest with him. Tell him that you made a big mistake after drinking too much and you regret it because your job is important to you and you don't what anything to have an adverse effect on it. Tell him that you respect him as your Boss and would like to keep it that way and keep your relationship strictly business. If he has a problem with that or tries to hold it over your head, start looking for a new job. No job is worth giving up your self respect over. Also, if he continues being sexual with you after the talk, you could have a sexual harrassment case on your hands. Of course, that should be a last resort. Finding a new job and getting on with your life should be your first priority if he can't accept your feelings and wishes.
2007-02-10 01:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell someone of higher importence. Something stupid happened and now you have to be threatened about it. You can make this secret and everything. Have one of your really good friend call one of the big boys and tell them what happened. They can say there name and everything and they will not be hurt. As long as someone knows about what is going on then you will be able to get out of this easily. If you don't do this they everything that you have done for your career wil be flushed down the toilet and no use. Get him fired would be the easier one. Also if you don't feel that you want to do that about the importence. I will tell you to tell a women boss about the situation. Make sure they are cool and could understand the situation. Mainly b/c they are not ones to keep there mouths shut. So when your boss hears that other bossed know about it then he will back down. Make sure none of this will lead back to you. The famous, " I heard that so and so are doing so and so." Good luck honey!
2007-02-09 23:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by fxysxysrkly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...you should be able to keep your job without having intercourse with your boss. Especially if either of you are married!! Tell him straight out, you're not interested in him. That you were drunk and you didn't have a good sexual experience with him and that it was a HUGE mistake on your part.
ALSO DON'T FORGET the part where if he threatens your job, you can then threaten him by letting him know you will tell his wife all about it, because I highly doubt he's going to tell her.
2007-02-09 23:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by thehereyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have put your foot in it this time haven't you. You made a big mistake in sleeping with him. Now you have the risk of loosing your job. Chalk it up to experience, and dont make the same stupid mistake again.
2007-02-09 23:55:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Of course you felt uncomfortable, you are rightly embarrassed about the way you behaved.
Milk this for all it's worth. Make him buy you lots of great stuff and rather than put up with the pumping, teach him how to be a great lover. It's up to you how positive this could be.
2007-02-09 23:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by amazed_lab_rat 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
you are in big trouble now.....either way you risk losing your job so I would explain that it was a mistake...you really care about him but you can't do that to his family.....and that being close to him is all that matters....good luck and don't sleep with him again....slow down on the booze too before you get yourself in deeper trouble
2007-02-09 23:56:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fake it until you make it...isn't that what that lady from the apprentice said right before she got fired....maybe you'll have better success....
ps..if you can't hold your liquor...don't drink
2007-02-10 00:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
That is disgusting!
2007-02-11 18:17:23 · answer #9 · answered by Brett M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋