please tell me your stories, did you seperate for a time or nearly lose your husband or wife through bad times but didnt give up?
2007-02-09 23:20:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, I was too late. I lost her and will regret it for the rest of my life.
2007-02-09 23:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by Avondrow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lived a loveless marriage for twenty years. We always
cared about each other but we were more like brother and sister.
We never talked about the problems in our marriage and
I always thought that when the kids grow up we would most
probably separate. But then my world was turned upside
down when I found out he had been secretly txt and e-mailing
someone that I know. I found out and it wasn,t until then when
I told him it was over that we both found ourself crying and
saying sorry to each other. He thought I didn,t give a toss
for him and I felt the same way. We were both being stubborn.
His was never a physical affair but an emotional one and in my
book and he agrees himself he was cheating. I found I still
loved my husband after all and he felt that he had won me back.
We are so happy now. We talk and talk and there are no secrets
between us now. We are happier now than we have ever been.
Our sex life is just fantastic. We are like a new couple (I think
our kids think we have gone mad!).
One day I will sit down and send this 'other' woman' a Thank-You
card. Because if it was not for her this was not have come about.
And we would have still be living in a stagnent marriage.
So I would always say - try and give your partner just ONE chance. My hubby knows if ever it happened again - he would
be out of the door pronto.
2007-02-10 01:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm hoping I can get back the love of my life that left me a week ago due to too much pressure at work, his grandfather dying, his mum having a life threatening operation then I had to have a big operation just before christmas which I'm still not recovering from. I hope it is just a case that it's all got too much for him as everything has happened within a 7 month period! Two weeks ago we were looking at buying a house together :O(
2007-02-10 00:45:08 · answer #3 · answered by ATP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the middle of trying not to lose the one i love we nearly separated but have not yet because i am 3 months pregnant. I pray for all those out there who are suffering and have a broken heart that God be with you and me.
2007-02-10 07:13:21 · answer #4 · answered by honey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! i was living with my partner and he was becoming a real nightmare everything i did was wrong eg. his dinner was on the table every night but was never what he wanted, not that he ever told me what he wanted, so i moved out. we stayed together but he was just not putting in the effort so i called it a day. i loved the bones of him and he knew that so when i called it off he was stunned. we were apart for about 2 weeks then he came to his senses and told me he was sorry and loved my more than anything. he's now the man i met 3 yrs ago and everything is great. we are still living apart but he comes to see me all the time and we are talking about moving back in together i love him so much and he loves me. the thought of losing me bump started something in him and now its fantastic.
2007-02-09 23:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by Giggle Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not me but my friend was with this guy for a really long time, and i guess they had something really strong as they had been friends first for a long time and then liked each other secretly for a while so it gave them the strongest foundation which in turn saved them. basically the guy moved and it became long distance and they started arguing all the time cos my mate coldnt understand why he didnt have any time for her and he was annoyed as she couldnt get he needed a social life too. then she thought he cheated on her and she had good reason to think it and he was so angry with her accusing him he let her think it for like a day before he told her he wasnt. i think the big final arguement had been brewing for ages bt she wouldnt talk to him cos that one day she had gone to pieces and he hadnt even thought about what letting her believe that would do. but they made up. for the silly reason that they missed each otherway too much. i reckon she let him off too lightly. silly man
2007-02-09 23:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by DesertRose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost him out of convenience for his life . I know Im still in his heart but he has to figure that out himself. He won't b w/ her long because he loved me & I was good to him . I loved him then & always will. I will wait ,he'll figure it out 1 day.
2007-02-09 23:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am separated and lost him
2007-02-13 10:41:51 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll never get over her, or "move on".
2007-02-10 19:20:30 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋