When you were a kid did you bully around some people and were a people pleaser to some?

Question

What is this sort of behaviour called?

Answer 1

yes!
but not quite as extreme as that. i didnt really bully anybody. just bossy.

Answer 2

What you are proposing is a *false alternative* - as if we have to choose between the two - if it were a matter of being a victim or being a victimizer|

But there is a third way, which is the right way|

This third way is to act with *integrity* in all situations and circumstances that you find yourself in|


That means to do the right thing, simply because it *is* the right thing to do|

If you do that, justice will be served for both yourself and the other at the same time|

As a result, your situation with others will be win-win, rather than win-lose, in which it is thought that in any interaction with another, either you or the other party has to lose, with only one winner possible|


And another thing, never never, under *any* circumstances, tell a lie to anyone|





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