He has two young kids and a kind wife. He doesn't know about anything but he's kinda nervous whenever he sees me. I don't know why is he so. He is always a cool and mature man with others. I want him so much. I know I shouldn't have such thoughts but I'm in a dilemma.
2007-02-09 23:07:09 · 13 answers · asked by Deborah T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
get over it, his is married and will never be able to love you back nor give you the type of relatioship you want, there are plenty of men out there in the world who are single and available who can give you what you are looking for.....
2007-02-11 02:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do you women always claim to be in love with these married men when you know for a fact that he is not going to love yoou back only if there was a way to wipe out all you stupid azz b itches.It's people like you that give other women bad names.Go out and find a man that is single. You probaly never had anything of your own before always getting things from the hand me down store right.For once in your life get someone thats not already involved.You know that you are going to end up hurt and then you will be right back here on answers crying talking about how he has hurt you.So do yourself and the rest of us a favor and save the drama by finding yourself another man to love and that is willing to love you back.
2007-02-10 07:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually when we ask someone about something like this we already know what is right. The thing is, this man made a promise to his wife. Kids complicate the issue. Sometimes being the "other woman" is fun, a man is appreciative, and you don't have to nag him to help with the chores, house or kids so you have an unfair advantage over her. I guess ask yourself, knowing he is able to lie to someone who probably trusts him, he is able to spend time with you that his kids probably would enjoy, is this really the kind of man you deserve and want to make a life with? Careful, you wouldn't be the first girl to be used like a Kleenex and discarded once he thinks about divorce and child custody. Good Luck.
2007-02-10 07:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by donny_mollysmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your problem is same as me . I am in love in a married men too but since we start to live together , he was broke up his wife and this is the one thing i was feel really hurt because the kids ... its look like take for granted too . and the wife was crying .
well , my advice to you is just observe if the man love u or not or for just one interest only ..means only for past time sex thats why he wants you . I f you really love the guy maybe i was say is just set him free than you broke the family . you can get better man in a single man
2007-02-10 13:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by nyek ! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi...nice to meet you... i was like you...I fall in love wit this married guy three yrs ago,, we were still tgt nw...But if you really wanna choose this relationship...You will hv tobear alot alot of consquences...If he really loves you tat would b gue..I belive in true love even after marrige wit som 1else...Even if he loves you,you loves him...His wife doesnt kn...Wat about the jelousy?If he doesnt want to divorce?And he still loves his wife and child...You gg to see him receive calls frm his wife...When seeing you...Som times he may tok abt his family...Yr heart will break...Imagine at nite he is hugging his wife bt nt you...As you think more you will be more angry and more quarel will arise...If he cant stand youtat it...If he can...he will ask youto be more big hearted...He cant gv you anything...All tis stuff...Can you bear wit it?I have experience all tis...Its really veri veri tough my dear...I hope you reconsider...Either you be a third party 4eva or single...if you choose tis...Becus there is alway retribution..yr hubby may do the same to you...Dun let yrself fall into such a situation...If nt nxtime if you want to let go...It may b too late...You had alreadi went deep in.....good luck...
2007-02-11 14:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him do not end up being one of those (home-wreckers) ther are too many single people out there for you to pursue !! Marriage is hard enough without throwing something like this into it and there are children involved !!
2007-02-10 07:45:14 · answer #6 · answered by linda bug 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not cool. Go to church to get those demons off you they are trying to creep up in your soul. You probably have a husband or boy friend too huh. Demons got you seeing things that really can mislead you. Not throwing stones but i will pray for you.
2007-02-10 07:15:32 · answer #7 · answered by McDaniel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is blind, just open your eyes and your mind and realised. Is better to leave him for good, there are so many men on earth. I'll sure you can get a better man, good luck !
2007-02-10 08:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone he's married with kids. Go find someone single and available.
2007-02-10 07:27:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
juz forget abt him it is a sin 2 break a family especially with young children
2007-02-10 07:19:28 · answer #10 · answered by dramaqueen 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋