I am in a lesbian relationship of 5 years...me and my girl are trying to have a baby. My very best friend of like 15 years is helping me achieve this task. However..I was never with a man before him and im not sure if i should tell him this or if i should keep it my little secret? im kinda torn on the issue. we have always loved one another and i know he would still respect me and everything but is it something that he should really know?
2007-02-09 23:06:34 · 6 answers · asked by lucy_2 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
If you have never been with a man before I think you should tell him. Not because it is his right to know but because he can take things a little easier and slower with you at first. Good luck.
2007-02-09 23:10:00 · answer #1 · answered by soxy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the fact that you both love means u both have faith in each other and there is no point in hiding anything from a person whom u love , im sure he will undersatnd you and respect you for being frank and honest.
2007-02-09 23:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by shiraz m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is something he should know. What if when the baby is born he wants it and your partner wants it. Why don't you get a sperm donation? It might be less complication in future.
2007-02-09 23:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU DO IT WITH HIM IT WILL MEAN YOU WILL BE NO MORE A LESBIAN. TELL HIM AFTER YOUR FIRST SEX. MAKE HIM PROUD OF BEIGN THE FIRST MAN TO ENTER IN YOU. HE WILL LOVE YOU THE MORE GOOD LUCK.
2007-02-09 23:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by Kwadwo B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. Tell him. It will make him think he might be able to "convert" you, which will get him excited, which will lead to more sperm production.
2007-02-09 23:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by angrysandwichguy2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-09 23:09:44 · answer #6 · answered by conan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋