2007-02-09 22:59:21 · 6 answers · asked by MomMom 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
THERE IS NOTHING LIKE INFERTILE WOMAN. EVERY WOMAN CAN BE FERTILE PROVIDED THE ONE HAS WOMB. IT COULD BE WORK OUT. THEY FEEL ENTITLED BECAUSE GOD DID NOT SAY THAT. GOD SAID WE SHOULD AND BORN TO FILL THE EARTH. IT WAS A COMMANDMENT TO ALL. EVERYBODY.
2007-02-09 23:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by Kwadwo B 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The reasons behind the infertility aren't a major issue to me, as long as any issues that may have contributed are in the past. Maybe they did cause it themselves. But have they resolved whatever was going on that caused it? Have they accepted their inability to have a biological child? Do they want to adopt, understanding it isn't the same as giving birth? Those are the bigger issues to me. Someone shouldn't have to pay forever for a mistake, even a self-destructive one. If they did something that caused their infertility, and have accepted and grieved it, they've paid enough. People change. People grow up and wise up. People shouldn't be judged forever based on their pasts, but by how responsible they are NOW. We all make mistakes. It's about recovery and understanding of the situation, not laying blame or casting "fault." Having had problems in the past doesn't make someone a bad parent forever, whether it's parenting adopted or biological kids.
2016-05-24 22:18:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do fertile women who cant take care of one baby continue to have more?
I have a little story to tell you about this. I know a couple of women who have children one has 2 the other has 3. The one that has 2 doesn't have a job her and her boyfriend and their 2 children live with her dad she is pregnant again the father of the children works 30 hours a week at Subway. Her FATHER works 2 jobs during the week and 1 one the weekend to take care of her children, why should she have any children? The other woman that has 3 children lives with her husband's parents her husband works 40 hours a week she stays at home with the kids, his parents work 40+ hours to help take care of the children. Why should they have any children? Neither of these women can take care of them. Now I have this friend who has been told that she is infertile she is wonderful with kids, she would be a great mother, she lives with her husband in their own house and they can't have children. Why not?
When you can explain to me why people who can have children and can't take care of them continue to have them then maybe I will explain to you why when you can't have one you want one even more.
2007-02-10 00:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by My little girl is here!! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of a question is this? If a woman wants to have a baby she should be able to. I think that insurance companies should pay for diagnosis and treatment of infertility like all other medical conditions.
2007-02-09 23:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What do you mean? Don't you think that most women would like to have a baby? I don't see anything wrong with that. Why do ugly people want to become pretty? Why do women with small breasts want bigger breasts? Why do short people want to become tall? We always want to have what we do not have.
2007-02-09 23:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Same reason you are entitled to ask a question.
2007-02-09 23:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋