2007-02-09 22:55:35 · 17 answers · asked by χχ-яσ¢н3ιιχχ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if your mum said it
2007-02-09 23:00:09 · update #1
she produced you so look at her, of course you would feel bad but she obviously feels that she has done a bad job, it is an underling problem on her part not yours. dont worry you have done nothing wrong
2007-02-10 01:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by baby blues 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your problem is purely that you don't want to hear it then yeah, tell her to shut up and never speak to her again. Great answer. Sheesh. You could also try poking lumps of cheese into your ears so that you can't hear her.
If your problem is that she feels that way, then it's time for a talk.
I don't think whether it's reasonable of you to feel hurt or not is even remotely close to the issue here. If that's how you're looking at this, you have a lot of growing up to do.
If someone told you you had bad breath, would you a) get angry at their "rudeness" and never speak to them again, or b) start cleaning your teeth more often, use floss and invest in a mouthwash?
So come on. What are you doing or not doing that's making her feel that way? WHY is she saying it? What can you do that will change her opinion of you? Does she want you to get a job? Go to college? Help around the house a bit more? Then ask yourself whether THAT is a reasonable view for her to have, and talk about it like adults.
2007-02-10 02:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by Snakey B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all relative. At the end of the day it is only another person's opinion. Only you can honestly answer if you are a waste of space because only you know how much effort you committed to something. Also bear in mind that we are all good at somethings and bad at others so everybody has worth. I guess what I mean is look at the bigger picture and the answer is No you shouldn't be hurt
2007-02-09 23:03:23 · answer #3 · answered by the_armani_gent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all its not a very nice thing for a mother to say to her child.
And if it were me I would be feeling hurt, but I would also have to stop and ask myself why is she saying this.
Have you done anything to make her feel like this, I am not saying you have, but it is extreme.
Are you at school, but not bothering to do schoolwork, or even go to school,
If you have left school, do you work or do you lie around all day.
Have you said some awful things to your mom and this is her getting back at you.
You need to stop and think, have you done something to make your mom feel this, if you can answer that honestly and truthfully as know you havnt then, your mom is really in the wrong here.
2007-02-10 15:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by portly_pumpkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person who was saying it.
Yes Im sure I would feel a little hurt as that is not a nice thing to say to anybody but if the person saying was a boss or a supposed friend who is jealous of u etc I wouldnt take it to heart.
2007-02-09 23:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would be hurt and I also would push the person who said that out of my life! Whoever told you that was cruel and mean! They must be insecure about their life or jealous of you. I wouldnt be friends with someone like that. I would ignore them and let them know that comment doesnt hurt you and go on. You dont need negative people in your life so break free from them!
2007-02-09 23:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by helen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell them i didnt need their money and would they get out of my space cos they're wasting my precious minutes that i will never get back!
2007-02-09 23:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by Giggle Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If only it was said by a loved one. If it was by someone i don't give a monkeys about i would tell them where to get off.
2007-02-10 00:01:39 · answer #8 · answered by fancyface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah but only if i still lived at home.
She probably didnt mean it and is just having a bad time.
What triggered her off?
2007-02-10 07:11:46 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would be hurt but if your mom said it she is probably trying to make you look at your life and improve things ,anyone else i would prove them all wrong and show them i can be as good as they are or evan better
2007-02-09 23:15:01 · answer #10 · answered by zannyto4nanny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋