My question is regarding my husband’s erection. He can not do it anymore since the age of 55 he is now 62 and physically fit but he loves to watch pornographic films also was very active in sex but recently that urge is totally gone. I’m 54 and still very active but the problem is my husband. We are both very particular when it comes to personal hygiene. So we have no problem there. I just want to know is there any way for my husband to be active in sex again? I believe at 62 men are still capable.
2007-02-09 20:52:36 · 18 answers · asked by rekha 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Hi,
Of course one continues to be sexually active till the last day of one’s life! If your husband has sexual desire but does not get adequate quality of erection (stiff enough for penetration), then he can certainly take help of desi Viagra (Sildenafil Citrate). The drug needs to be taken on empty stomach, one hour before the anticipated sex act. One can take this tablet only once in 24 hours. The tablet does not increase the desire, nor does create an erection. What it does is, it enhances the rigidity and sustenance of already achieved (partial/semi-stiff) erection. The drug is contraindicated if one is taking any anti-hypertensive drugs which contain nitrates. This being a prescription drug, needs to be taken under doctor’s supervision. I am sure this will rekindle your sexual life!
Enjoy Life
Dr.Mojo
2007-02-09 23:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-12-23 01:44:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he can't get it up, doesn't mean he can't still service you orally or manually. But he certainly needs to see a UROLOGIST, not a regular doctor, to see if there is any problem with his plumbing. Even if he isn't interested in sex, though with the porn I doubt it, he still needs to get checked out to see what is wrong.
If he just doesn't want to do it with you anymore--see what porn he is watching. Older guys tend to stray more to interest in other guys, a hormonal thing. If the porn is male/female, he may be watching the guys more than the girls. If that's the case, then talk frankly and let him know you want some male servicing, and get a guy over maybe to take care of you both.
2007-02-10 07:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your husband sounds pretty normal. He may have a prostate issue, or even a low level of testostrone (which is easily fixed with Androgel or testostrone injections that will give him that "lift" that you and he want).
I'd see a doctor...if you can broach the subject with him. It's a pretty "touchy" subject for most guys, so be gentle...
Good luck and PLEASE don't listen to the pundits about "old people sex". Heck, you're just getting goiing!!!!!
2007-02-09 21:26:30 · answer #4 · answered by mhcgjl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See your doctor as viagra is available as well as injections that will help your husband get and maintain an erection.Doesn't matter what your age,if the urge is there,do it and enjoy.
2007-02-09 21:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by justsuuuzeee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What obligations does a wife have to her husband?
2017-03-27 01:57:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husbands acting funny?
2015-11-30 21:06:14 · answer #7 · answered by Ring 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A significant number of men develop impotence from psychological causes that can be overcome. When a physiological cause is treated, subsequent self-esteem problems may continue to impair normal function and performance. Qualified therapists (e.g., sex counselors, psychotherapists) work with couples to reduce tension, improve sexual communication, and create realistic expectations for sex, all of which can improve erectile function. Psychological therapy may be effective in conjunction with medical or surgical treatment. Sex therapists emphasize the need for men and their partners to be motivated and willing to adapt to psychological and behavioral modifications, including those that result from medical or surgical treatment.
Medical Treatment Oral Medication Oral medications used to treat erectile dysfunction include selective enzyme inhibitors (e.g., sildenafil Viagra , vardenafil HCl [Levitra], tadalafil [Cialis]).
Selective enzyme inhibitors are available by prescription and may be taken up to once a day to treat ED. They improve partial erections by inhibiting the enzyme that facilitates their reduction and increase levels of cyclic guanosine monophosphate (cGMP, a chemical factor in metabolism), which causes the smooth muscles of the penis to relax, enabling blood to flow into the corpora cavernosa. Patients taking nitrate drugs (used to treat chest pain) and those taking alpha-blockers (used to treat high blood pressure and benign prostatic hyperplasia) should not take selective enzyme inhibitors.
Viagra is absorbed and processed rapidly by the body and is usually taken 30 minutes to 1 hour before intercourse. Results vary depending on the cause of erectile dysfunction, but studies have shown that Viagra is effective in 75% of cases. It helps men with erectile dysfunction associated with diabetes mellitus (57%), spinal cord injuries (83%), and radical prostatectomy (43%).
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2007-02-10 04:11:12 · answer #8 · answered by john w 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Have him talk to his doctor, I would be curious to see if blood pressure isn't becoming an issue. Kudos on the porn-stash.
2007-02-09 21:23:44 · answer #9 · answered by Doc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not comfortable to go see someone for advice (I can imagine), then you can order sex enhancement pills. They increase the stamina and help your husband to get an erection. Goodluck!
2007-02-10 15:31:29 · answer #10 · answered by Timmo 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋