Alright, I'm a guy and all that right. Anyways here is the situation.
My best friend is J (fake name). We sort of have this thing going where all our friends come to us with various sorts of emo/drama problems. But for our own we go to eachother. We also have alot of morals, beliefs, things we do that are the same. It's like we're somewhat brothers even though we're very different. We also joke around but are smexiness and give eachother random friend hugs and such. We're both the fighter sort of guy and have gotten ina few brawls where we had eachother's backs when fighting alot of other guys. Since we both are well trained we usually take care of business.
Now also I was raped by a 6th grade friend plus his sister and her friend when I was in third. So I dont have many guy friends because I'm very touchy about trust. I am more trustful of girls than guys most of the time. I never expected to act this way w/ a guy though.
Is this wierd to be this close with a friend?
2007-02-09 20:31:44 · 12 answers · asked by rezruf 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, we are definantly not homo or even bi. Nor are we homophobic. We just are able to be close to eachother without feeling grossed out.
What I mean is that I put alot of trust in this friend that I normally dont put into guys. Most other guys I barely know and just get along with.
2007-02-09 20:53:28 · update #1
smex=sex
someone said they didnt understand. Basically were both able to say "I'm hot, you're hot, lets go find some babes". Problem with that phrase now is that we both have girlfriends. (well that's a somewhat for me. But another whole issue.)
2007-02-09 21:30:02 · update #2
No. That's what friends are for.
2007-02-09 20:34:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first of all iam sorry that you had to go through that, and there is nothing wrong with you having a friend that close to you, actually it is good for you. My husband has 2 or 3 best friends like this and they have been friends for yrs and yrs. they hug all the time, but i have a very sweet man and so is id friends. my husband is the manager of a jariggs caterpillar, and this is actually how i met him, through his friend that i was telling you about i went to school woth him, and i promise you they are just good friends and would probably die for the other, but if you are having any kind of thoughts when you boys hug then maybe , just maybe you might have hidden feelings, dont stroke out on me i had to say that, and hey, if you need to talk yell at me on yahoo, but good luck and i think everything is normal
2007-02-09 20:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by jgordongrl24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
er, i can't see what's so odd about that. you're mates, well, nah, "brothers" should be more apt, and it's only normal to look after each other, doesn't it?
i haven't seen any book or published material that limits the degree of 'closeness" of mates. society may have preformed ideas of how "close" mates should be, and male mates at that, but why succumb to standards, if there are? yeah, there's nothing weird about that. and if you're worried, then don't. both of you are doing just fine.
2007-02-09 20:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by jose 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is wierd. It is great to have a friend that is so close. That way, if you need to talk to someone about something thats going on in your life, you can go to him and be able to trust him. Don't be aftraid of that.
2007-02-10 02:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by beachgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not wierd at all - you are very lucky to have such a close friend. Enjoy each others company.
2007-02-09 20:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
modern day society has protrayed the image where if a guy has a best friend..he is gay. this is not weird at all for you...just dont listen to the media and youll be fine
2007-02-09 20:36:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey guy it should not bother you so long as you are all clear about your friendship and you know the boundaries. friends are people we chose unlike family so trust yourself in being able to sustain and hold on to the friendship.
2007-02-09 20:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by sonic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude forget what the world thinks, its all upto u and ur friend, just do what to you think is best for you!
2007-02-09 20:36:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know because i dont understand what smexiness means
2007-02-09 20:35:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
..see well no its fine to have close male friends
2007-02-10 03:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋