my mans been sending emails back and forward with a women for a few weeks i just found out what should i do im 38 weeks pregnant
2007-02-09 20:24:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ask him what the deal is, simple communication can really clear the air about stupid little things like that just dont be to naging and trust your gut
2007-02-09 20:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by Bill Folder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything until after you do the following. Print off those emails and continue to monitor them and print the new ones that you find.
Save as much money in a hidden bank account that you can possibly save between now and when the baby is born.
Gather up all the valuables in the house that you can and hide them someplace he can't find them.
After the baby is born, then confront him with the facts, and demand he end his cheating, and if he won't do this, file for divorce and take him to the cleaners. Take him for everything he owns and make damned sure you get the largest childsupport award you can possibly get from the divorce court.
Also, seek alimony if this is your first marriage.
2007-02-10 05:50:19 · answer #2 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you find that out? Have you seen his mails directly? or Did he show you? Whatever it is...
You just ask him cool and make him cool... dont lose temper... just discuss whats the relationship between them.... if he doesnt want to talk about this... then we need to suspect a bit. But I am sure he will discuss it with you.
But I am telling you seriously.... if you dont ask ... you have to suffer like this, even there is nothing between them. Dont strech this matter... just ask him.
2007-02-10 04:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by Nenet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you have just found out.tel him how hurt you are and it somehow changed the way you have trusted him.dont use the reason of you being pregnant for him to come back. instead give him time to assess his feelings for you and the consequences of his action.Its better for him to come back to you not bec you are pregnant but bec. he loves you most.
2007-02-10 05:03:52 · answer #4 · answered by jing v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so sorry. talk to your man. try to work things out. he is cheating. maybe it is best if you two get some couples counsiling
2007-02-10 04:27:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about this to ur man.ask him the reason
2007-02-10 04:35:58 · answer #6 · answered by lakshmidevi1027 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋