My sister is about 3 years younger and these girls are around my age group. (17-19) I really don't understand this. Alot of people that do this know her because of sports and things and when I try to make friends with them they either just give me dirty looks or ignore me. I just stopped because I'm used to this but not with anyone that knows my sister but acts like an a!! towards me. I just feel that if they want to be all close to my sister to at least try to make an effort to at least say hi. Most of these girls are older than me by about a yr.
They really have no reason to do this, I don't have a bad rep., I haven't stole anyone's man, I am friends with lots of people but I do have some people that dislike me for no reason, but still. I try to talk to them/compliment then, they dont wanna talk or look at me wrong or have an attitude with me. One is always staring at me at school. Should i keep making the effort or just forget about it
2007-02-09 19:25:18 · 14 answers · asked by uglyvanity 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Also, it's not like I'm all in their face. I'm not ms. kiss butt. Usually it's just a sincere "hi" (well it was) and it was just the rolling of the eyes the looking up and down and bad tone that I got. The girls don't know me, they know of me but they dont know me. When I say trying, it's not that i'm TRYING too hard, I just wonder if I should just ignore em regarldess of them knowing my sister.
2007-02-09 19:36:09 · update #1
Think about, and be honest, as to why they may dislike you. People usually don't dislike other people for no reason. Are you really opinionated? Could they be intimidated by your intelligence? Girls are especially guarded when it comes to smarter and more attractive females. It usually benefits females to surround themselves with slightly less attractive and less intelligent friends...sound awful but it's the truth. If there really truly is NO reason for them to dislike you, then they are just mean people and not worth your time, I would focus on the people who are truly your friends. Life is too short to wast on mean people!
2007-02-09 19:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by katiebug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet it's the type of girls your sister is choosing for friends,not you. This is a good life lesson, even though it sucks. Remember how it feels to be excluded and put your effort into being friendly to other people that have been shut out as well. Good Luck Honey
2007-02-09 19:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about it, people that knew me, most people did, and not my sister used to like her because she just didn't care. She never talked to anyone and they respected that Usually they didn't say anything unless they were like really close to me, but if they ever disrespected her I nipped that in the bud because if you love me, she and I are a package deal, but she and I are one year apart so we're pretty close. Don't make an effort, why waste your time on people who don't care anything about you......it's really a waste of your time. Cherish the friends you have. Good luck!
2007-02-09 19:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch ugly Betty they just had an episode in regards to that. To sum it up, the sister who Betty thought had everything was really very unhappy. We all have problems, self esteem issues of different kinds. It sounds like your sister's friends are pretty selfish and mean. Why would you need their approval? Hang out with YOUR friends and let your sister hang with her shallow, wannabe's. Your friends are probably much nicer. Don't even acknowlege your sister's friends at school. Ignore them. You are too good for them.
2007-02-09 19:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by Carrie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they dont wanna be friends with you thats their loss dont let them stop you from knowing that your a beautiful person their are plenty of people in the world just get out and meet them
2007-02-09 19:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by texastycoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore then, they are not worth all the effort you put into being nice to them especially if they refuse to acknowledge the fact that you are atleast trying, youre not going to win everyone over so just try to have your own friends and dont waste any time worrying about those girls....
2007-02-11 02:12:47 · answer #6 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can sense when your trying, and sometimes it's off putting. Stop trying to communicate with them and just do your own thing. Maybe it is something as simple as your too attractive. Sometimes girls are threatened by attractive girls and don't want to be friends with them or maybe they think your outta thier league.. too good.
Forget them
2007-02-09 19:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's possibly basically hitting puberty and coping with the hormones and stuff. you need to study with her about how she feels. For each and everything she complains about no longer lots can do if she would not comprehend you have become privileges because your older you cant make her.
2016-12-03 23:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by korniyenko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go off the losers.The are losing a great guy.Their loss.They will come to you if they hv sense
2007-02-09 19:32:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u don't need a friend that judge you without knowing u first. U can do alot better. Smile sweetie!
2007-02-09 19:30:32 · answer #10 · answered by eeekkk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋