why do men prefer them over sex most of the time? i dont mind doing it, i actually love it, but i've always wondered why it feels so much better.
2007-02-09 18:40:36 · 20 answers · asked by atreyu17244 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Men are just strange,never know what to expect or what really pleases them.To me sex is better.
2007-02-10 04:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by BLESSED 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Basically, (and I'm sure most guys will agree), bj's are the ultimate experience. We don't have to do the work. It feels a lot better than intercourse, as the mouth and tounge can be controlled in ways a vagina can't. There's also the fact that it's even being done, which surpasses the feeling experienced in loosing your virginity via vaginal intercourse ten fold. There's also something else involved, but what that might be is too hard to describe, but I know it's there.
2007-02-10 02:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by amerikilla_gorilla 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It's just intensely pleasurable and very intimate. I love intercourse, but there's something very special about receiving a BJ. Many more variables.
And from what I hear from women, receiving oral is the ultimate for them also. Many have admitted that it's often the only way they can have an orgasm. Nothing beats direct stimulation from a warm mouth and tongue.
2007-02-13 04:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by fishtown_jimmy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A lot of what is behind receiving oral sex for a man is the MENTAL thing. We are being SERVICED. That is a big turn on for some. It DOES feel different. I worked with a guy who wouldn't let his lady go down on him and he wouldn't go down on her. Sad what they both missed. I like it as a bit of the foreplay, but won't stop my lady if she wants to continue to the end. Sometimes she doesn't want to make love but wants to pleasure me.
2007-02-11 00:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like receiving bj's for many reasons:
1. the friction between her mouth and my penis is more controlled and tighter.
2. sometimes it just feels better, especially if that's the mindset i'm in.
3. i don't have to do much of the work. not that it isn't worth it and not that i don't love it, but sometimes i'm aroused thinking that my wfie is being the aggressor. that's great!
2007-02-12 13:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just went and asked my boyfriend. He said he likes it because it feels different than regular sex. Plus he said it's erotic to see me down on my hands and knees pleasuring him. Then he kind of jokingly said that he gets to relax and just enjoy it when he gets a bj,
2007-02-10 02:58:39 · answer #6 · answered by Elisa 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
The same reason why women like to have oral performed on them.... I personally like it because I love looking at a pretty face as she has my enourmous meat in her mouth. I love feeling her tongue as it caresses the head of my penis. I also love when i'm about to kum and she takes my hot load into her wide open mouth. It excites me a whole lot.
2007-02-10 08:10:06 · answer #7 · answered by trm_bone 1 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its better than sex but its kind of warming up before having sex or to help regain strength,if you understand me!!
2007-02-10 03:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by ayz 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
because they can just lay down (sit, stand...) and get serviced. they don't have to exert any energy to get the O. also, just a different kind of sensation than regular intercourse.
2007-02-10 02:46:29 · answer #9 · answered by Elaine T 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Reasoning...
1. people often don;t get a partner that performs Bj;s on his/her own will. that makes them more eager...
2. More lubriction and vaccum is created by partner....
3. Kinda delays you c%mming period.
i don;t prefer it.... rather... without (oral $_x) my $_xercise does't end
2007-02-10 03:12:57 · answer #10 · answered by Zaheer Ahmed 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋