well my boyfriend started to get atitudes with me and hanging up in my face calling me crazy and stupid. and when i tried to tell him how he was treating me he would say stuff to me that really hurt my feelings. when i tried to tell him that im sorry for doing nothing he wouldnt even care and i wasnt even suppose to say im sorry. so yesturday i got mad and made a tagged up about my boyfriend (something like myspace) and i trashed is reputation at his school. i said he was and hoe and he dumb and all kind of stuff like that. so today he found out and got mad at me and i tried to explain to him why i did it, and he got even madder at me. he siad i was wrong....was i really wrong? he started talkn bad to me, and i aplogized for saying things about him but he started spreading rumors about me. but i only did it to him cuz for 2 weeks he did me wrong. and still hasnt apologized. did i do something wrong? i dont even understand whats happening. did i deserve to get treated wrong for 2 weeks?
2007-02-09 17:58:27 · 4 answers · asked by *babygirl* 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
This sounds like a situation with potential for serious abuse. It is never right to trash someone else's reputation, and you have both done it. If he is not receptive to you at this point, it may be too late to save the relationship, and I'm not sure it's a good idea anyway. You can write him a letter and apologize, and take the stuff off Myspace, but if that doesn't work, he holds grudges, and that can cause all kinds of grief. Better to find out now than later when you have more of a commitment. Good luck to you. Try to find someone who will treat you right. You don't deserve to be treated with ugly and nasty actions. By the same token, show that you are worthy of better treatment by giving it to others. It will be hard. You are undoubtedly bonded to him, but the sooner you get this resolved the better. We have to face many difficult situations, and each time we face one, it gets a little easier. But the difficult situations don't stop happening, so best to learn how to handle them.
2007-02-09 22:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by Pat G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea u did something wrong...you tagged about him. dont do that cuz thats wrong cuz the world has acess 2 that. but he seems like a crazy butthole i would just breakup with him
2007-02-10 11:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you should not be treated like that. if this has being going on for a couple of weeks, dump him. u may like him a lot, but it has got to be done.
2007-02-10 08:28:34 · answer #3 · answered by Unknown. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a jerk you could find someone better that cares for you just leave him
2007-02-10 13:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ i L0VE U S0 MUCH ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋