And you are almost to the point where you both agree to it, but then she sobs so sadly because she does not want to lose you.
Especially since getting a divorce would be the "right thing" for her. I am so connfused.
2007-02-09 17:50:01 · 8 answers · asked by Billy Bob D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
see a councler. Thats what they do.
There's nothing wrong with wanting more. You have to figure out how to give her that. Maybe she's just sad cause she doesnt want to lose your friendship. My X was full blown cheating on me and was already in love with this other guy. BUT she cried when it came to the breakup. Realashonships are comfort. You alway's want and need that comfortable feeling. Breaking up means unstable ground. who needs that.
2007-02-09 17:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by Grand Eminence 1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Divorce has to be ugly , I saw my brother go through it & he has been a mess ever since . Before Divorcing take a little vacation just the both of you if no money take a day or two driving through the back roads in your state and staying in cheap motels and explore your state and yourselfs good luck & God Bless ...
2007-02-10 01:59:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if you both want a divorce you are both going to be upset ,its an ending and will need to be morned ,maybe that's all it was ,her morning the loss of the marriage ,I cried a lot after I kicked my husband out ,but I never wanted him back ,its natural.
2007-02-10 01:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by stephanie n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take it to mean.She is still in love with this person.She believes this person does not love her.She believes this person does not want to be married to her any more.Instead of just saying that to this person.She tells him.She is considering a divorce.In other words..She is calling him out..feeling him up..to get his feelings...his insight into the situation.If he told her he wanted a divorce too.He did not give her the answer she was looking for..because she still loves this person wants to be married to him..she does not want to lose this person.She wanted him to tell her he loves her...wants to be with her..he did not want to lose her..By telling her he wanted a divorce..he only confirmed in her mind and heart..he does not love her..want her in his life..So if you love her..want her in your life..do not want to lose her..you better go tell her..tell her to stop saying things she doesn't mean..
2007-02-10 02:13:32 · answer #4 · answered by noga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may need to just get it done and over with. It is hard to let go of someone you had made plans to spend your life with and scarey to start all over again.
2007-02-10 06:46:16 · answer #5 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it.. if you are even thinking about it ..your first thoughts are your correct ones .. always no doubt do yourself a favor and do it and her too if not you will go years regretting not doing it.. been there done that..
2007-02-10 02:36:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means YOU ARE CONSIDERING A DIVORE
you answered your own question retarrrrrd.
have a nice life.
2007-02-10 01:54:20 · answer #7 · answered by imagangster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are getting older.
2007-02-10 01:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by devid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋