i have this girl and shes like my bff. but when she gets into fights with me shes total *****. she one of those popular girl snobby. i mean im popular but im really nice. and if we get into another fight do you think i should end our 2 year friendship?
2007-02-09 17:37:24 · 13 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she is also always wanting to be firneds wiht me!
2007-02-09 17:43:32 · update #1
That is completely up to you. As i tell all friends in this situation regarless if you are BFF or not. You be honest with the friends in good times and in bad no matter what. If she is being a real Bit*h then be honest with her in the fight and tell her and even when the fight is over tell her the same thing.
You both make the choice. Either remain friends knowing one anothers true feelings or one or the other move on from this friendship. I mean you either accept each other for who they are faults included or you don't.
2007-02-09 17:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by LM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how you feel. this girl and i became best friends instantly. well about 1 year into the friendship we started fighting about the tiniest things. our fights were usually about how we expected something from each other and we weren't satisfied with the way it turned out. if your fights are about how you hurt each other i think you should sit down face to face and talk it out but if it is stuff like annoyance or things you can find wrong with every person then you need to tell her the friendship is too much work for you and that you think you guys need to cool off for a while. when you don't talk as much you will realize if you want to be friends. hope that helped
2007-02-09 17:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by lovelies710 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds b***y and I would question your judgement in calling her a best friend.
Are the fights short lived? Is it over small things? Is she always wrong?
If you get along and you can forgive her shortcomings then continue the friendship.
If you're hanging around with her just because she's popular you need to find a better crowed to hang around with.
Personally I'm not into snobs becaus ethey don't tend to be caring towards others.
Try spending less time with her and find a friend that will support you for years to come.
2007-02-09 17:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lover come and go. Friendship last forever. You call her G friend then switch to friend. Which is it. IF your really friends she'll understand you'd rather keep that and loose a lover. Maybe she's frustrated waiting for you to comite a little further OR alot.
My 1st wife and I was extremly competitive, This distroy'ed us. Maybe you should relax and do the swinger thing. I don't nore would ever myself, However if thats what is frustratig her, Give her her space. How important is she to you.?
2007-02-09 17:47:27 · answer #4 · answered by Grand Eminence 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, let me get this straight..
She is hitting on your bff
and she fights with you.
And you think she is a friend because.....???
Define "friend".
There are friends and then there are those that you are acquainted with. She is the latter of the two.
2007-02-10 02:40:43 · answer #5 · answered by Goddess of Laundry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah because if she was really a good friend then she wouldnt be actin that way twards you.... life is too short to deal with people like that soo you should end it and find another one!
2007-02-09 17:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by js_scooby123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it she's a bit*h and snobby, who needs friends like that?
2007-02-09 17:43:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes- people's true character comes out in time of stress.
2007-02-09 17:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello heyitsme,
Sure. Why not? Life is too short to put up with people with bad behavior.
--Rick
2007-02-09 17:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the fight btw i really think YES
2007-02-09 17:45:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋