she is going to have a baby her mom found out. Her mom wants her to abort it. what can she do help plz
2007-02-09 17:16:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well She should make the choice depending on how responable she is. Abortion is very difficult and hard to cope with its painful as well. I am agaist but i do understand in some cases its almost seems necessary,. but since she is old enough to have sex then she is old enough to buckle down and take care of a baby. All she can do is insist to her mom what she feels is best, its her body. Just make sure she understands theyre are a lot of places that can help her and adoption is always an option to, theryre are plenty of families that cant have a baby and that can be a way of still giving a gift. i hope everything works out for her . i understand i was pregnant at 15 almost 16 and now hes 6
2007-02-09 17:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by mekitty1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think she jus needs 2 make her own decesion i mean her mom cant force her 2 have an abortion cuz its not her body. i wouldnt want her 2 get 1....i hate the thought of abortions
2007-02-10 03:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to sit down and really think about what she want to do its her baby and its her life. If she does keep the baby her mom will fall in love with the baby trust me she will.
2007-02-09 18:08:17 · answer #3 · answered by Tonya R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how old is your homegirl first of all? it all depends---- going to school and raising a baby by your self is alot i repeat alot of work! when the baby is sick and your tired and all you want to do is sleep. you can't!! does she have a job? baby's take time and lot's of money!! she needs to live her life as a teen and enjoy it because when the baby is here it's all about the baby!! she needs to be a grown up to be able to be a good parent/role model for the child. enjoy your life before you have a baby!!
2007-02-09 18:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by les1321 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if she's "mature" enough to deal with a kid then f*ck the mom. if not, then put her up for ADOPTION and ABORTION. give her that option (don't even mention abortion). there is always an alternative to abortion, stupid people that don't think abort. just make sure that she thinks it through though.
2007-02-09 17:36:29 · answer #5 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that no one can make her have an abortion. Tell her to ask her mom, " Mom, look me in the eyes, would you have aborted me if you had that chance?" Tell her you don't believe in abortion.
2007-02-09 17:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by tlimsisnw7 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋