my photo is on uglynet under uglywoman?

Question

can you guys help me out i think im really ugly and have also mean called names i even think i disfigured of the face some how i have been called ugly many times can you help me out by saying what is wrong with me and would i benefit from plastic surgery

if you enter uglynet thne look for uglywoman that is me please help me out

Answer 1

Just had a look and seriously you have potential to be attractive. You need the confidence to make the most of what you have. To me you really do not come into the truly ugly category.

Answer 2

I think you should show this question to your CPN- are you giving them a clear picture of how you feel? Getting the most out of your sessions with them will help you more in the long term than asking this question on a forum like this but that will need you to be upfront with them. I say this because from what you say it seems like this has been going on a while. I've looked at your photo and you're not an ugly person- but you know that website is about rejecting our obsession with beauty and perfection, which makes me wonder why you've put your picture on it. Feeling attractive isn't about staring at yourself til you like what you see, or a magic number of people telling you you're attractive, it's about knowing that whatever shape face/eye colour/nose you have that that's what you have. We all look different and we all find different people, ie different faces and bodies attractive, so there is no set version of attractiveness. If you don't see yourself as attractive it doesn't matter how many people tell you you are- the point is you have to think it yourself. You will feel you are attractive once you start to like yourself, and that comes from within, and when you manage to catch that, you will like what's on the outside, and what I've said in my last paragraph will make sense to you then. Every time you ask the question 'am i attractive/am i ugly?' you're creating an anxious situation for yourself, which is unnecessary and unhelpful. In the meantime, focus on your self-esteem, self-confidence and self-image by making sure you put all your energy into your time with your CPN. It may be that there are other treatments and therapies open to you but this is best way forward for you, not tormenting yourself by constantly asking yourself and others this question.

Answer 3

Okay I went on this site and I looked for "uglywoman" and I am looking at this picture right now. What the hell is wrong with you?? If i saw you on the street that thought would never pass through my mind. You look fine to me and I'm judgemental as hell.
First thing, half of what people think of you is what you think of yourself. think of yourself as beautiful and eventually others will follow. You do that and start smiling and these freaking haters will learn to shut up. Those people are trying to take advantage of the fact that you have low self esteem. **** them.
Next thing, focus on the things you like about yourself. Everybody has things they don't like about themselves. Try to enhance the things you like. You have really pretty eyes and a nice smile. Wear some eye liner and mascara and put on some lip gloss and you'll be fine. And remember!!! Makeup is not meant to hide, it's meant to enhance, so don't overload. If you get plastic surgery you'll probably end up looking like an alien. I only see your face in the picture so I don't know how you dress or anything but the same thing goes for that. Downplay what you don't like and emphasize what you like.

Answer 4

its not plastic surgery you need just some help ok so here goes and im just trying to help.... so start with the hair short hair doesnt suit your shape of face trylosing the fringeand getting some dark borwns low lights and some honey highlights... have you teeth whitened have some hair extentions and the look of longer hair will lengthen your ace and give it a whole new look and you will feel better. you have clearly understated eyes you should make them more of a feature this will detract from the things that you feel dont look so good. invest in some good quality eyeshadows and mascara and go to the make-up counters for advice on how to make them stand out.... you dont need surgery and you are not an ugly woman you just need to make the most of your good points and blens away the bits that arent as good . you should smile with a laugh in your heart and this will make your eyes shine and your heart rise.
good luck.

Answer 5

i had a look at your picture .I can`t see where your so ugly .you look about average like most people do .I think a lot of it comes from how you feel inside.and then the rest what you do with your self on those make over programs(without plastic surgery)the difference in peoples appearance by just finding out what suits them is amazing
what was that program called on a saturday morning with Cat Deeley and Ant and Dec see the state of her when she was being Cat the Dog .if someone as pretty as her can make them selves as bad as that its got to be able to work the other way

Answer 6

I am new to all of this but I must admit I feel pretty sad that this uglynet even exists, why you should even want to associate yourself with a site like this makes me feel that you have very little self esteem. I haven't seen your photo and wouldn't want to comment on your physical appearance, but I would suggest that you consider counselling as I believe this may be beneficial to you and help you concentrate on other areas of your whole well being.

Answer 7

i had a look at your pic
your not ugly at all

sorry you feel that way but honest hun your not ugly you just need to love your self more
why not go out today and buy yourself a nice outfit or go and get a new hair style im sure this will make you feel good

good luck

Answer 8

You know being beautiful isn't everything, most people prefer a 'real' person which i bet is what you are, not ugly at all just a real person, i can dig that i think you sound and probably are beautiful x x x
And i just checked you out on the net you are not ugly, don't put yourself down i think you are pretty

Answer 9

evvverryy one is going to get ugly at a point in their lives. The worst is, a gorgeous girl with a sickening perosnality. If there is somehting that you are good at, drawing, dancing, singing...work on it! make yourself shine at it. Focus on staying posotive. There is always someone else out there at a worse point in their life than you are. Remeber, Your personality will make you stick out in a crowd. How many fake, cake faced girls with bleached hair and fake nails out there? 100000.. now how many of girls....gorgeous or not, that have a golden personality that makes people want to be with? I am sure you have somethin special about you. Find it an flaunt it!
Good Luck!

Answer 10

Your'e not ugly at all, your skin looks good, you don't need surgery, just some nicer people around you.