I like this boy and he likes me. I have realized he is a flirt but I beleive he likes me alot. We go to different schools but the same church. I see him almost every Sunday. Also it is really hard to talk to him with out smiling and looking really retarded. I want to tell him how I feel but its really hard and also I cant have a (bf) or have boys #s yet. What do I do?
2007-02-09 16:51:37 · 9 answers · asked by Neffy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just leave it where it is...I think it is cute and innocent...
You don't want to take things too fast...they will develop on their own...plus you don't want to look desperate....
He will always have his eye on you because he doesn't know exactly what you are thinking...
And he will respect your friendship better as it grows....
2007-02-09 16:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by LIFECOACH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you are not 16 yet. I know how you feel... let me tell you that you should talk to him, don't hung out a lot. Think what the boy needs instead of what you/him wont. Lets say the pristhood, let him know that he has a gift. Stay friends with him. Thats what a hot ballet did to me. We are not 16 yet but we are going to date when we turn then. Not going out, just dating. Just be friends, its hard but its better then sluffing school, and not becomeing a docter. Saveing lifes is better then some girlfriend. Well intell you feel all alone.
2007-02-10 01:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by fireghost3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Neffy why would you want a b/f if you can't see him except on a Sunday and even that's only in church.
He's probably flirting with a lot of girls so why would you want him anyway.
Flirt back with him but you should be hanging around with boys in your own school, at least you will get to see them on a daily basis.
The more you see him the closer you will get. Absence really doesn't make the heart grow founder, it more like out of sight out of mind.
2007-02-10 01:01:27 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
Well Im havin a problem with the guy i like too, If you know he likes you a lot then you should have no problem talking to him, im sure if you tell him how you feel he will be touched and tell you the same. Make sure you talk to him and keep him interested until by the time you are allowed to date, you can go on a real date with him and call him.
Have fun!
2007-02-10 00:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by •♥•vballsweetie•♥• 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young lady in time this will all work out your to young to worry about it ! Think about it you can only see him once a week and talk to him once a week just try to become a friend without telling him how you really feel ! Because in the years to come you will both know how you feel about each other!
2007-02-10 01:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by MLove69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends with him first and just talk to him on the Internet and church. Let your parents know that you would like to give out your phone number so he can call. It might be okay because he is from church.
2007-02-10 00:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u cant have a bf and the only contact u have is church then if i were u i wouldnt c him ...i mean i would kinda weird doin somthin i new was wrong in church .. but if u realy like him and ur sure he likes u confront him and tell em how ya feel im sure he'll be flatterd and like u .....and about that smiling issue..if the boy makes u smile...themn smile girl ...im sure he'll like it
2007-02-10 01:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by jazzyj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a tween aren't you? Consider this your first crush. and it's called that because in the end you might feel crushed. Can you exchange email? Is that allowed? You could ask your parents about having him over to watch a movie. They get to meet him, and it's supervised. Be open with your parents about this and you might be able to persuade them a little.
2007-02-10 01:07:20 · answer #8 · answered by brandyswilkes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another boy why waste time on this jerk find another guy.. people are a dime a dozen the faster you learn this the better off you will be.
2007-02-10 00:55:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋