why is the best emotion so easy to turn to the worst?

Question

why is love so easy to turn to hate?

i did love my ex very much but i hate her extreamly now.

Answer 1

Because that person is the closest to you. You wouldn't hate someone you don't know because they mean nothing to you. If someone you are close to hurts you, that's when you feel pain, and that's when your feelings can easily become very negative.

Answer 2

In the brain, the strength of an emotion registers before the topography. That means that we know we feel strongly about something before we know whether that feeling is love, hate, anger or whatever. So when you feel intense love, that emotion can easily be converted into anger or hate with the same intensity. That's why we often love people who have some traits that we really hate. That's why make up sex is so good. That's why it feels so bad when you get turned down by the girl you were most attracted to. But don't worry. The limitation of emotion is that it is made for quick, intuitive responses, and so can't maintain their intensity for long periods of time. Just spend some time away from you ex and doing things to distract yourself and you'll get over her.

Answer 3

Because so many people think that love is the opposite of hate and we're wrong. It's not. Total Indifference is the opposite of Love And Hate!! Those 2 emotions are the 2 heads of the same coin. Am I making sense? Don't know if that says it.

When I open up to love and experience it being returned, I also risk rejection and being hurt. That's the price I pay for wanting to be loved and going for it!

But when I couldn't care less about a person and never think of them anymore, that is the opposite of giving a s***!! It's like the joke about the guy who keeps calling the girlfriend that dumped him, just to tell her he doesn't think about her anymore!!!
Good Luck!! See Ya Around!! Let's DO lunch!! @8-)

Answer 4

Here...

This philosophy will blow your mind a bit if you really think about it.

Love is so easy to turn to hate, because in actuality, they are the exact same thing... But the two can't exist in the same place or condition at the same time. Like the north pole and the south pole...

Imagine love and hate as a number line... different degrees of the very same energy.

Love and hate are only words... The words that act as a human catalyst for understanding and utilizing vibration. Words that we assign to powers and energies, forces and natural phenomena.

The only reason a dog is a dog, and not a cat... Is because we named it that. They are both animals, both mammals, both warm blooded furry little things with teeth and tails and eyes and ears. Just different.

Answer 5

The end game was the payoff for many years of all that work building up to that. You never really loved her but now you really hate her which was why you faked it so long. You are where you wanted to be from the beginning but, also, you played a game with you, her and any children and all else involved. So don't feel bad if you have what you wanted.

Answer 6

love is irrelevant.
you 'love' a thing,
reality changes each moment it seems.
hence the thing changes,

and that new thing for whatever inner reason, you do not love.
it is how it is
and not to be sad or of such.

surely you love your girlfriend
and if she was the same now as she was then
you would 'love' her just the same.

yet we change and at no point in life ever be the same.
albeit because of the flow of time.

Answer 7

I think that it depend on the person you waist your emotion on.
emotions are a gift, and if you give the gift of love to someone and they take it for granted. they are the reason you become mad. Because in your mind you actually feel like you wasted your time on that peron.

Answer 8

Because it hurts the worst.

Answer 9

Anger.

Answer 10

wat r u talkin bout.... its just an emotion.. get on with ur life