2007-02-09 16:25:36 · 10 answers · asked by melly bear 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It honestly depends on the womans' body!
Some people don't feel anything! Some are already so physical that the hymen has already "broken", while others it is still intact..and can hurt some..for a few days or one day...depending on how sensitive a person you are...some people it can still hurt,,,even if the hymen is broken fully! It all just depends!
2007-02-09 16:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by ladyk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, don't have sex until you're married. It has too many consequences, and the physical part of it is not that amazing. It's the emotional part of being connected with your husband.
Anyway, well, I was really afraid of having sex for the first time. So, for a little while, my husband just tried putting some fingers up in there to loosen it up and make me feel more comfortable. We did that for a week or so because I was so afraid. When we finally ended up doing it for real, it didn't hurt at all because of all the "practice" with the fingers. If you don't do what I did, then sex will probably hurt a lot of the first time. It hurt when my husband just put one finger in me. The bleeding will come from the tearing of the hymen. (a thin layer of skin partially covering the outside of the vaginal canal). However, some girls have already broken their hymens from tampon use, riding a bike, or some other "trauma" down there. Some girls are born without hymens. It all depends on your specific body.
When you have sex for the first time, make sure your husband turns you on sooooo much. If you are not adequately turned on, then the vagina will be sort of stiff and unlubricated and will hurt on penetration. Use artificial, water based lubrication the first time, if you are afraid. And, Relax when he enters you...if you are nervous the vagina will become stiff.
I'll tell you something else about sex that I didn't know until I experienced it. When a woman has sex for the first time, she may end up getting a Urinary Tract Infection. Doctors don't know why exactly, but it could be from bacteria being pushed up into the urethra. I got 3 UTI's the first month that I was married. I went to the Urologist and got antibiotics. The doctor said that I should drink a lot of water before sex and then urinate directly after having intercourse. You should drink a lot of water everyday too, to prevent the bacteria from infecting your bladder. Urinating after sex washes the bacteria out of your bladder. Drink a glass of cranberry juice everyday, too.
Ok, hope that helps!
2007-02-09 16:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by H M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's different for everyone. It may hurt a little at first, but that will go away. The bleeding is only a small amount, and some people don't bleed.
Be safe.
2007-02-09 16:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having sex is a natural act. It could hurt if penetration is too quick and forceful. Try a little lubricant and take it slowly. If the boy is also a beginner, you'll both have to work at not going at it too fast. It could all be over before you even started. Then you'd have to try again later.
2007-02-09 16:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by eddie_schaap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...it hurt a lot. Yes...you bleed if you still have your cherry. And how much...i think that depends on the person but it wasn't that much. Use a condom!
2007-02-09 16:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by xox1sexyangeloxo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if you use tampons, and you might bleed a little.
2007-02-09 16:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sometimes, usually, at least enough to spot the panties. It really is not all it's cracked up to be. It's almost ALLWAYS better for the guy. yes, use protection!!!!!
2007-02-09 16:33:41 · answer #7 · answered by know it all 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some ppl bleed alot, my friends did anyways, and for most ppl it is uncomfortable. i was lucky neither happend, but everyone is different. please wait until you are ready, don't give in to pressure bc everyone else is doin it.
2007-02-09 16:32:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it feels like a knife in your privates and you only bleed like a quater size circle.
2007-02-09 17:58:36 · answer #9 · answered by wldorchid2001 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dipends on your body ... but don't worry if it have pain it have plesure in that pain two ...
2007-02-10 02:01:49 · answer #10 · answered by shirin_no66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋